ThaWholigan Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Ladies ladies. There's only one way to settle this: Pudding Wrestling. I'll watch 1
Drseussgrrl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Good for you, Drseussgrrl, I love mine too, they look nice, and they are real. Great. How's that "real" interest in the dude you're making pay for all the dates he's taking you on? Sorry honey but you're no more authentic than anyone else. 1
Tara247 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Edgygirl, another thought: you could also consider just a lift which will improve the sagging, but won't give you the fullness of breast implants. I hope this is helpful.
monicaelise Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Mastopexy (lift) leaves fairly gnarly scars. They're generally worse than those associated with implants. In fact, the only breast surgery that leaves worse scars is traditional mastectomy. Trust me, I've become a freakin' expert on all of this over the past six months.
Tara247 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Mastopexy (lift) leaves fairly gnarly scars. They're generally worse than those associated with implants. In fact, the only breast surgery that leaves worse scars is traditional mastectomy. Trust me, I've become a freakin' expert on all of this over the past six months. Monicaelise, if edgygirl's breasts are as saggy as she indicates, then she will probably need a lift along with the implants. A lot of women need both. So, she will probably end up with the lift scars either way.
BS76 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 First thing I wanna say is I didn't make this post to be funny I'm actually being serious. This girl that I've been dating for the past few months and has been my gf for the past three weeks told me over the weekend that she's buying herself breast implants for herself as a Christmas gift. I was surprised; however, the fact that she wanted them since she was 16, is paying for them by herself (didnt ask me for any money), and the facts it's her body. All I said was nice and congs to you (plus I've been her gf for only three weeks I don't believe my opinion would make that big of a difference anyways and I'm kinda looking towards it). Now that being said all the people that she told about it so far (both make and females) told me "I'm sorry" or said "Im on my way out". The two people I actually questioned and asked what do they mean they said when a girl gets implants theirneo goes though the roof. With that other guys will hit on her and the second you mess up you're out. From past experiences I've learn if the girl wants to stay there is no other guy that can make her leave and if she wants to leave there is nothing you can do to stop her. I wish to know other peoples experience or point of view about girls getting implants. Thank you Those people know what's up. When a woman gets a boob job or loses a ton of weight, it's very common for them to get inundated with new attention to the point the bf/husband doesn't look like their best option anymore and so they end up trading up.
Drseussgrrl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Those people know what's up. When a woman gets a boob job or loses a ton of weight, it's very common for them to get inundated with new attention to the point the bf/husband doesn't look like their best option anymore and so they end up trading up. I have friends with boob jobs and have never seen this happen. 2
monicaelise Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I have friends with boob jobs and have never seen this happen. Because it doesn't lol! Any woman who thinks she's going to "trade up" because she's had a boob job should carefully evaluate the concept of "trading up". I don't think I've ever met a woman who thought she was going to find a better quality partner simply based on her having a bigger rack. A woman may find she gets more (very superficial) attention, but she won't be "trading up" solely on the basis of her boobs regardless of what they're made of. 2
mesmerized Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Because it doesn't lol! Any woman who thinks she's going to "trade up" because she's had a boob job should carefully evaluate the concept of "trading up". I don't think I've ever met a woman who thought she was going to find a better quality partner simply based on her having a bigger rack. A woman may find she gets more (very superficial) attention, but she won't be "trading up" solely on the basis of her boobs regardless of what they're made of. Lets face it, not all women are this smart. I know multiple women that started cheating once they got more attention. Funnily enough, one of them just got divorced because of her cheatings and bought a pair of huge knockers right after.
MrCastle Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 As an ass man and someone who feels complete apathy when looking at a pair of tits (unless they're really awesome) I can't identify with this. I understand some girls get pressured into believing they need bigger boobs, and some others just personally want to get it done, but I just don't agree with it. Mainly for feel. You can't dupicate natural boobies, no matter how small they may be. They feel awesome. I've felt fake tits before. Very hard, almost like baseballs, and they don't jiggle like a real pair do. I was honestly scared I was going to pop them when I was squeezing them. I didn't want to pay out of pocket for a new set, so I stopped squeezing them Bottom line; don't get fake boobs girls. Even if you're flat chested. 2
Tara247 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 As an ass man and someone who feels complete apathy when looking at a pair of tits (unless they're really awesome) I can't identify with this. I understand some girls get pressured into believing they need bigger boobs, and some others just personally want to get it done, but I just don't agree with it. Mainly for feel. You can't dupicate natural boobies, no matter how small they may be. They feel awesome. I've felt fake tits before. Very hard, almost like baseballs, and they don't jiggle like a real pair do. I was honestly scared I was going to pop them when I was squeezing them. I didn't want to pay out of pocket for a new set, so I stopped squeezing them Bottom line; don't get fake boobs girls. Even if you're flat chested. Edgygirl, I would listen to Mr. Castle and consider going for a lift. Much of what he's saying, I think I told you that before.
TheBigQuestion Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 On my list of mate selection criteria, whether a woman's boobs are real or fake is quite low. I don't see what the big deal is one way or the other. Now if a woman has sh*tty taste in beer, that's a different story. "omg Miller Lite is my favorite beer." GET THE F*** OUT. If she doesn't enjoy the Back to the Future trilogy, chances are we wouldn't get along either. But fake vs. real boobs? Meh. 2
Tara247 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 On my list of mate selection criteria, whether a woman's boobs are real or fake is quite low. I don't see what the big deal is one way or the other. Now if a woman has sh*tty taste in beer, that's a different story. "omg Miller Lite is my favorite beer." GET THE F*** OUT. If she doesn't enjoy the Back to the Future trilogy, chances are we wouldn't get along either. But fake vs. real boobs? Meh. :lmao::lmao::lmao:
Charlie Harper Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 A very well done implant job, with a reasonable size and a person who has good scar healing will be unnoticeable from a "natural" breast. Then again you can turn off the lights... I have seen the wonders a good implants and surgery can do for self image and self esteem ... if you want them and they are not a way out of depression insecurity etc... GO GET THEM.
veggirl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I wonder what percentage of women nowadays get boob jobs. I am always shocked at how many have them. I've only ever known girls in their early/mid 20s who have gotten boob jobs, and of course those were for vanity reasons. I would never get a boob job just cause mine aren't huge. I would not feel comfortable (if I was a guy) dating a girl who is getting a boob job to look better / feel more confident...unless maybe she had less than an A cup (like legit flat chested, boy looking). That would just rub me the wrong way, knowing they are spending thousands of dollars for surgery simply to take a B cup into a D. OP I think your gf's attitude sounds a little concerning...trying to achieve a "porn star look" hardly sounds healthy. 1
MrCastle Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I would also add, one good thing people, all people should do, is enhance what their best qualities already are. So if you get noticed for your eyes, wear clothing and specific eye shadow that enhances them, etc. For girls that are flat chested, try to improve that booty of yours. I say that with a clear bias for ass but the fact remains. There are exercises to shape and tone your ass and thighs. You may lose the boob demographic but you'll make the ass/legs demographic very happy. 1
grkBoy Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I did ask her some questions based on all the input I've received. She actually say I like the porn star look. And she's going from an a to a full c. I dunno. I'd just advise you to be the man she originally found attractive and be a good man to her. If she's going to do some shallow thing like dump you to look for a "bigger better deal", then move on knowing she tossed away a good man. 9 out of 10 times I notice women who do that end up having much trouble finding that "better deal". So I say stop being concerned and enjoy the here and now...and get some good motorboating in regardless. 3
ascendotum Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 As an ass man and someone who feels complete apathy when looking at a pair of tits (unless they're really awesome) I can't identify with this. I understand some girls get pressured into believing they need bigger boobs, and some others just personally want to get it done, but I just don't agree with it. Mainly for feel. You can't dupicate natural boobies, no matter how small they may be. They feel awesome. I've felt fake tits before. Very hard, almost like baseballs, and they don't jiggle like a real pair do. I was honestly scared I was going to pop them when I was squeezing them. I didn't want to pay out of pocket for a new set, so I stopped squeezing them Bottom line; don't get fake boobs girls. Even if you're flat chested. I agree with you MC. All the small boobed girls I've known have never struggled for male attention. I do think its a different story though for some women post babies. If you have been with a single mother with a set of flappies you might not be so strict on your outlook. If a girl had them it wouldn't phase me. I can understand this guy's girl wanting to bump up from an A though it sounds a little off when she says I want the pornstar look. For women who have decent beasts already but they are just a little saggy due to age, or they just want big knockers that bust out of their tops, then to me its more along the lines of vanity. If guys had an easy op to increase their masculine aura plenty would do it too. Its the nature of anglo western society today. People put more stock in image, and biz/media also help to make us feel inadequate. I do get the self esteem boost that can come from getting the chest you really want, but while women say they do it for themselves, I do think the desire to look more womanly is underpined by the innate want to be more desirable for men. It wont necessarily translate into her trading up, but its does happen, as it does with fatties>trim, scrawny>buff, struggling>'now got their shyte together' people. No sense worrying about it, till he senses changes in her behaviour post op.
Tara247 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Great. How's that "real" interest in the dude you're making pay for all the dates he's taking you on? Sorry honey but you're no more authentic than anyone else. Drseuss...your posts indicate that you are as fake as the big bags of silicone implanted in your chest. 1
SureYeahWhyNot Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I agree with Mrcastle. Boob size isn't as important as a lot of girls think it is. 1
Drseussgrrl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Drseuss...your posts indicate that you are as fake as the big bags of silicone implanted in your chest. This doesn't even make sense. Yeah I have a boob job. I own it. And I only consistently date men I genuinely like. Unlike yourself. How would you like it if he was on a message board saying he was displeased with the way you look? Pretty damn hurtful. Much like the way you spew judgment on people you don't even know. I don't know what you're trying to prove.
Charlie Harper Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I wonder why women get so worked up if someone has implants... they behave like men when someone cheats on poker... 1
edgygirl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 Wow that's so f-ing rude. Why? This is so sad. Have some decency, people. Specially when you call yourself religious. Drseuss...your posts indicate that you are as fake as the big bags of silicone implanted in your chest.
SmileFace Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I wonder why women get so worked up if someone has implants... they behave like men when someone cheats on poker... These are my sentiments exactly. How this thread went so off topic to a seperate argument is so LS.
edgygirl Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 What if the person is getting lifts or implants not specifically to get a bigger size, only to make them look normal again? Why is everyone so defensive? I never thought about doing this, my boobs were perfect before. Until they turned into something that doesn't match my body. I want to feel normal again. I want to be back to the C cup I was my whole life up to 2 years ago. What's so wrong with that? I am not telling my story to get your feedback. I don't need your opinion on this. I only share it to show a real life story so you open your minds a little. I am against putting a size that doesn't fit someone's frame. I am against doing it to increase your wannabe porn start look. I am pro it if you're doing it to fix boobs that are bothering you due to weight loss that deformed them, if you have kids and are sad about your looks, if you were born with uneven breasts and things like that. Stop being so judgemental. Do you also think people who lose a leg should not get prostetics because it's not "natural"? Gee. Get real. I agree with Mrcastle. Boob size isn't as important as a lot of girls think it is.
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