She's getting implants

[kaylan]

Proper answer to all of this is, "Who the **** cares what it screams to you." Get over yourself.

This could be said in response to any opinion on this forum.

 

That being said, heres a reality check. This is a public forum where everyone can offer their opinion. Spare me your typical lame retort.

[Tara247]

If she wants breasts support her. If she wants to leave she will anyway, let her go.

 

But just because she wants her breasts done doesn't mean she'll have an over inflated ego. Or that her new breasts will be hard. Most are. The trick is getting them under the muscle.

 

Sweetkiwi, from what I've read, if a woman gets them under the muscle and takes them out later, she will be disfigured.

[Andy_K]

I am in favour of plastic surgery for any physical changes which can't be accomplished via diet & exercise alone. Boob jobs are fine.

 

I know some guys will instantly jump out and label all such girls 'insecure'. Fine. Left them. Leaves more cute girls with fake boobs for me and other guys like me

[ThaWholigan]

I'm not a massive fan of implants, but I'm not one to use the "insecurity" argument to belittle the idea. If a girl wants them, let her have it. I do prefer natural, even if they sag or whatever, and I think girls should probably try to be more content with their natural breasts, but that's just my opinion.

[edgygirl]

Hmm okay tell these women:

 

https://www.google.com/search?q=before+and+after+implants&hl=en&client=safari&tbo=d&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=p_rRUJmtF8av0AH1pYGADw&ved=0CAkQ_AUoAQ&biw=1024&bih=672

 

To be happy with what they've got. Specially the ones who had sagging breats before.

 

It's so easy to judge when it's not happening to us, right?

 

My point is, everyone deserves to feel happy in their bodies, do whatever it takes to achieve that, and not be judged by others.

[grkBoy]

You know guys, I've seen both sides of boob implants. I've seen two types of women who mainly get them:

 

a) Insecure women with low self-esteem who put much of their sense of value on their looks.

 

b) Secure confident women who want to alter their anatomy because they hate being pear-shaped.

 

 

The "a" women are the ones you'll see go not for "normal size" boobs, but large ones that can be seen. Courtney Strodden is the prime example of this. Like Strodden, you'll notice these women will constantly dress like hookers and be total attention nuts...believing they are everything because they are what they think is "good looking" (I don't find Strodden to be attractive).

 

Heidi Montag is another one like this.

 

 

The "b" women are the ones you won't even know they got them. Maybe one day they might wear more slimming clothes (because they work out) but they don't look like girls seeking attention. They might show a little cleavage now, but aren't sticking it out for all to see. They also won't try to go from A to DDD...but more up to a full B or a C. That or not even enlarge, but make them firmer.

 

Their goal is a more hourglass shape...not a pornstar body.

 

 

 

The big problem I see here is everyone assumes any woman who goes under the knife is instantly an "a" girl...and the guy should simply and insecurely dump her knowing she'll be out shopping for some tall hunky wealthy douchebag to play trophy to.

 

Read that...think about how much of it is true in your mindset...and then you'll see a big reason why you're alone. Those I see here subscribing to this logic show they have absolutely no trust for women...

 

...but ironically they still want one in their lives.

 

Get your heads together guys. We honestly don't know if Danblock's girl is an "a" or "b", yet many here are instantly assuming the worst and thus telling him to dump her.

 

Great advice. Imagine you actually find a real girlfriend and someone told you to dump her for the most stupid insecure crap. I'm sure some of you would do it.

[mesmerized]

Hmm okay tell these women:

 

https://www.google.com/search?q=before+and+after+implants&hl=en&client=safari&tbo=d&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=p_rRUJmtF8av0AH1pYGADw&ved=0CAkQ_AUoAQ&biw=1024&bih=672

 

To be happy with what they've got. Specially the ones who had sagging breats before.

 

It's so easy to judge when it's not happening to us, right?

 

My point is, everyone deserves to feel happy in their bodies, do whatever it takes to achieve that, and not be judged by others.

 

Hmmm a lot of those breasts look good and normal to me before surgery. Are you saying women should feel uncomfortable and ashamed of having normal breasts?

 

Again this is what women gained with porn. Believing they need to go under surgery to be desired by men. how I wish I was a man!

[FitChick]

grkBoy nailed it.

 

Women don't like other women looking better because they are the competition. Insecure men don't want their girlfriends looking better because they, not the girlfriends, are the real insecure ones.

 

To the OP, this has nothing to do with you. It's something she wanted to have done for years before you met her. The fact that you like her without breasts now shows her you like her as a person and not a sex object. Act like an insecure arse and you will not get to experience the benefits, post-op.

[edgygirl]

Of course not! I'm all for normal natural breasts even if they sag a bit, did I say something to the contrary? I just think when the sagging is too much, it's acceptable and not a problem to do something about it.

 

 

A lot of the ones in the link look great to me as well. In fact some of them shouldn't have done anything and they are probably what is being referred in this thread to as people who do it solely out of insecurity. Point is: I don't think I have to pinpoint a specific case in the link or in the internet as I am sure you can see clearly the ones that were sagging a little too much and looking like 'oranges in a sock' like someone pointed here... and making these women self conscious and not happy about their bodies, and I'm also sure you can see how after having surgery these women probably feel much better and can go on happy with their life. I just don't see what is so wrong about that.

 

I could not care less about how women look in porn or not. I feel beautiful the way I am and I feel that men are attracted to me.

 

Again, if I ever get to do it, now or after having a baby, it won't be specifically to attract a man. It will be to feel happy in my body. And hopefully I will find a surgeon that will make them look natural, as I prefer to have sagging natural boobs than a non natural perky one. I agree that these fake looking ones are horrible.

 

Hmmm a lot of those breasts look good and normal to me before surgery. Are you saying women should feel uncomfortable and ashamed of having normal breasts?

 

Again this is what women gained with porn. Believing they need to go under surgery to be desired by men. how I wish I was a man!

[xxoo]

Hmm okay tell these women:

 

https://www.google.com/search?q=before+and+after+implants&hl=en&client=safari&tbo=d&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=p_rRUJmtF8av0AH1pYGADw&ved=0CAkQ_AUoAQ&biw=1024&bih=672

 

To be happy with what they've got. Specially the ones who had sagging breats before.

 

Looking at that linked confirmed to me that natural breasts are beautiful.

 

To my eye, the vast majority of "before" pictures are more aesthetically pleasing than the "after" pictures

[GorillaTheater]

I am in favour of plastic surgery for any physical changes which can't be accomplished via diet & exercise alone. Boob jobs are fine.

 

I know some guys will instantly jump out and label all such girls 'insecure'. Fine. Left them. Leaves more cute girls with fake boobs for me and other guys like me

 

My brain agrees with all of this. My Inner Lizard, however, has read too many "my wife got new boobs and now she's leaving me" threads.

[mesmerized]

Of course not! I'm all for normal natural breasts even if they sag a bit, did I say something to the contrary? I just think when the sagging is too much, it's acceptable and not a problem to do something about it.

 

 

A lot of the ones in the link look great to me as well. In fact some of them shouldn't have done anything and they are probably what is being referred in this thread to as people who do it solely out of insecurity. Point is: I don't think I have to pinpoint a specific case in the link or in the internet as I am sure you can see clearly the ones that were sagging a little too much and looking like 'oranges in a sock' like someone pointed here... and making these women self conscious and not happy about their bodies, and I'm also sure you can see how after having surgery these women probably feel much better and can go on happy with their life. I just don't see what is so wrong about that.

 

I could not care less about how women look in porn or not. I feel beautiful the way I am and I feel that men are attracted to me.

 

Again, if I ever get to do it, now or after having a baby, it won't be specifically to attract a man. It will be to feel happy in my body. And hopefully I will find a surgeon that will make them look natural, as I prefer to have sagging natural boobs than a non natural perky one. I agree that these fake looking ones are horrible.

 

Most of the women in those images didn't have saggy breasts. I have nothing against people doing it because of what having kids or cancer done to them. But with the way normal people are doing it (And not just that, butt lifts lip injections, hair extensions!), specially in americas, I think there will come a day when no woman will feel beautiful and worthy unless she has gone through a bunch or surgeries and other things and look exactly like some stupid idol. The madness has to stop at one point.

 

And no, I dont buy the whole its all for me, not for a man. Tell it to men who are simple enough to believe it. I'm a woman and know what goes through your pretty little heads lol

[Tara247]

It happened after my divorce and several other issues. Also it's hard to not gain weight in America. Not that this your business honestly. And hmm who are you to judge? And who said my dating life tanked? I was sexy even when overweight for a couple of years and had a bf back then and another while losing weight and after. Both guys loved my boobs although they looked better when I was bigger. What I keep saying is that now I'm having a hard time finding someone I like and connect since I broke up in May. but i keep hearing from you guys that my love life sucks lol. Just because I'm looking now? Wth?

 

What I said is NOW my body is back to normal, 118 pounds on 5'4, perfect BMI and honestly my body looks perfect besides the boobs... when you lose weight the boobs sag. It's life reality. I have never been so happy about my body as now and I get complimented daily. I look much better than a lot of 30 yo. I'm skinny. All clothes look great on me.

 

But I totally appreciate the beauty of a chubby girl. I think being thin or not only matters to people who are influenced by the media and Barbie models. I can see beauty in all body shapes, as opposed to you. I lost the weight because I didn't feel mobile in the other body, I was tired a lot.

 

People who didn't have their boba sag should not give opinions on whether a woman should get implants as you just don't get it. That's my humble opinion. If you got part of your body botched and it was annoying you, wouldn't you fix it?

 

Edgy, I'm sorry if you think it's none of my business and I'm not here to judge you. I'm trying to help. The point I was making and reiterating to you, although I'm sure you've figured this out now-still it could help someone else, is that you can't gain weight like that and think it won't negatively affect your body. There's a certain weight I won't go beyond, as a consequence I have not had many problems. I did gain 60 lbs over 10 years ago with my first pregnancy, but I was one of the fortunate ones; It didn't negatively affect my body. I was able to take the weight off in 3 months after giving birth. With my second baby, I only gained 35 lbs. Without being pregnant, I would never let myself gain so much weight. That was my advice and warning to you: not to let yourself go down that road again. You can ignore it if you want too, but you see what has happened to your breasts. And that would be my advice to anyone who is not happy with what weight gain did to her body.

[Tara247]

Oh I totally cqn appreciate all breasts shapes. It's just that, for me specifically, boobs are not physically comfy since my weight loss. They bother me when I'm not wearing a bra. And I like not using a bra while at home. And when I'm on top I can't relax lol cause I myself don't like how they look although the guy seems to be enjoying himself. Insecurity? Who knows. What if? I feel great about my body but if I can do something to feel even better and not self conscious, I will

 

Guys, how can you judge how someone else feels about something in their body? I personally think people look worse after a nose job 95% of times. But do I judge them for wanting to so it? I don't. People should do what makes them happier.

 

If you want to get the breast implants, then get the breast implants. I agree that if you are truly feeling bad about yourself because of this problem, the the surgery may be for the best. Just know the pros and cons going in. Unless there have been recent advancements, you should understand that breast implants don't last forever. What that means is that in 10 years or less when they mess up, they will have to insert more in your chest. Also, if you ever decide to take the implants out, you will look disfigured because of the stretched skin. Then you will have to have some sort of surgery to fix that problem. If you keep them forever, this won't be a problem. Just for your info.

Edited December 19, 2012 by Tara247

[edgygirl]

There's a certain weight I won't go beyond, as a consequence I have not had many problems

 

Good for you. Easier said than done for most people. I don't judge others.

 

People gain weight for diverse reasons that are beyond their control. Mental and anxiety problems, depression being a few - which are like having any other illness. Which can even cause people to have drugs although your self-righteousness won't let you understand that.

[Danblock]

I did ask her some questions based on all the input I've received. She actually say I like the porn star look. And she's going from an a to a full c.

[Esoteric Elf]

do whatever it takes to achieve that, and not be judged by others.

Uhhh, yeah, okkk

[dasein]

If she was a small A before and going to a C, that is an understandable cosmetic desire, clothes will look better on her and she may feel more feminine. IME it's the average size Cs going significantly larger you need to look out for and where the stereotypes come from. If she isn't histrionic in other ways, this will likely be NBD, and I'm not a fan of certain types of implant seeking behavior and the behavior that goes alont with it. Your GF doesn't sound like the problematic type who get implants. Good luck in your relationship.

[xxoo]

She actually say I like the porn star look.

 

She said she likes it? Or she said you like it?

[Danblock]

She said she likes it? Or she said you like it?

 

She as my gf says she likes it.

[Tara247]

Good for you. Easier said than done for most people. I don't judge others.

 

People gain weight for diverse reasons that are beyond their control. Mental and anxiety problems, depression being a few - which are like having any other illness. Which can even cause people to have drugs although your self-righteousness won't let you understand that.

 

I am not judging you. When are you going to get that through your head, edgygirl? If weight gain is caused by a medical problem, then of course, it could be beyond someone's control. However, if that is the case, that person should seek medical treatment immediately. Oh, and if you eat because you are depressed, did you go to therapy for it? I suffer from depression from time to time, and I have it treated. I don't just sit around and suffer. So, what I'm saying is if it is a medical problem do all that you can to treat it and go from there. If you don't want my comments then fine, but you are the one who is complaining about how the weight gain ruined your breasts. There is no need to be so defensive. My point was do all you can to avoid something that will ruin your body.

[Tara247]

Good for you. Easier said than done for most people. I don't judge others.

 

People gain weight for diverse reasons that are beyond their control. Mental and anxiety problems, depression being a few - which are like having any other illness. Which can even cause people to have drugs although your self-righteousness won't let you understand that.

 

And THIS, well this, I don't buy. If someone uses drugs, there is no justification accept that they made a bad choice. Just because they are depressed and life is hard, they have made a choice to pick up that needle and shoot up. Not good, and there is no justification for it. That is like saying that someone's life is hard, they can't get a job, so it's okay for them to be a drug dealer and go sell drugs to kids. Nope, not buying it,edgygirl. If you think that makes me judgemental, so be it.

[Drseussgrrl]

I am not judging you. When are you going to get that through your head, edgygirl? If weight gain is caused by a medical problem, then of course, it could be beyond someone's control. However, if that is the case, that person should seek medical treatment immediately. Oh, and if you eat because you are depressed, did you go to therapy for it? I suffer from depression from time to time, and I have it treated. I don't just sit around and suffer. So, what I'm saying is if it is a medical problem do all that you can to treat it and go from there. If you don't want my comments then fine, but you are the one who is complaining about how the weight gain ruined your breasts. There is no need to be so defensive. My point was do all you can to avoid something that will ruin your body.

 

Oh Jesus. If the girl wants a boob job big effin' deal. No need to go around justifying such a personal decision to strangers on the 'net anyway.

 

 

For the record, I love mine.

[Tara247]

Oh Jesus. If the girl wants a boob job big effin' deal. No need to go around justifying such a personal decision to strangers on the 'net anyway.

 

 

For the record, I love mine.

 

Good for you, Drseussgrrl, I love mine too, they look nice, and they are real.

[sweetkiwi]

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