She's getting implants

[kaylan]

Ewww I would launch for 3 reasons;

 

1. Shes insecure and cant make the most of her natural beauty. People who go under the knife to change their appearance when nothing is majorly wrong with them tend to have body image issues. Insecurity is a right turn off.

 

2. I dont think a womans sexiness or overall value comes from just her physical looks. Since this chick gets a bunch of self esteem from her breasts, we just wouldnt agree on certain things. Shes simply a product of a society that teaches women not to love themselves for who they are, and she perpetuates this message too.

 

3. Id have a hard time taking a young woman seriously who got implants. They tend to be vapid air heads who think their only value comes from outward appearances. If she was a victim of cancer, or simply wanted to perk her girls back up after pregnancy and aging, then Id understand more. But tbh, boobs of any size can be attractive to me, so long as they have some perk to them. She can hit the gym to help perkiness.

 

Either way, Id take any natural chest over any fake chest any day.

[iris219]

I don't think men realize how much attention attractive women get all the time. Big boobs or not.

 

On LS, men like to exaggerate the amount of attention women get.

[sweetkiwi]

So working out, eating better, having a good wardrobe, and grooming makes you insecure as well? No. It doesn't. Its self improvement. After i have children one day i am FOR SURE gunna get me some new titties. They're already Cs and on such a little body they look bigger. I don't want Fs but i don't want boobs that look like an orange in a tube sock either.

[Drseussgrrl]

Ewww I would launch for 3 reasons;

 

1. Shes insecure and cant make the most of her natural beauty. People who go under the knife to change their appearance when nothing is majorly wrong with them tend to have body image issues. Insecurity is a right turn off.

 

2. I dont think a womans sexiness or overall value comes from just her physical looks. Since this chick gets a bunch of self esteem from her breasts, we just wouldnt agree on certain things. Shes simply a product of a society that teaches women not to love themselves for who they are, and she perpetuates this message too.

 

3. Id have a hard time taking a young woman seriously who got implants. They tend to be vapid air heads who think their only value comes from outward appearances. If she was a victim of cancer, or simply wanted to perk her girls back up after pregnancy and aging, then Id understand more. But tbh, boobs of any size can be attractive to me, so long as they have some perk to them. She can hit the gym to help perkiness.

 

Either way, Id take any natural chest over any fake chest any day.

 

I'm not insecure, and I'm not a vapid airhead.

 

But, OP be prepared for judgmental attitudes like this if she has it done. There are a lot of misconceptions about women who get their breasts done, including your own insecurity about her straying. I had mine done 10 years after having a baby I gave up for adoption. No amount of working out and eating right will get breasts perky again - it's all fat.

 

Just remember - haters gonna hate.

[kaylan]

Hey problem is I gained a ton of weight after moving here (strees, work, relationships). than in the last couple of years I lost it all and have never loved my body as much as now. Side effect: nice full C boobs diminished and fell... sagged. In less than 1 year. Gone. Ugh! Judging by last guy I was with (fit 6') he didn't seem to mind at all, (we did it all night long lol), although it's not the same feeling I had before. And I was so self conscious, feel like a part of me is missing and although I'm thin I don't feel as sexy as when I was chubby with voluptuous boobs kind sad Girls...

No intention to Pamela, just correcting to what I had. Or i'll have to rebuy all underwear hhe.

 

edit; now that i think of it the guy did not play with them last time. yeah they're saggy must be scary. It was the first guy in 6 months so I didnt like it he didn't take care of them

Trust me. Most guys want the thin girl with a healthy shape. Boobs dont matter much at all. I want a fit girl, seeing as I am a fit guy...and I know low body fat means less boobs. I prefer a nice B cup handful tbh. I dont need anything bigger. And smaller is ok too.

 

I actually hate how many fitness models get implants. It sets unrealistic and unnatural expectations of the female body.

[sweetkiwi]

On LS, men like to exaggerate the amount of attention women get.

 

Hahaha yes they do. I get attention. Bad attention. Id rather have one nice genuine guy talk to me everyday then the hundreds of Italian perverts that look at my ass when i wall by.

[kaylan]

@edgygirl

 

PS - Smart guys know big boobs tend to sag even on young girls, but even more so with age. So plenty prefer smaller perkier boobs. I have no idea why you cant feel sexy when you are at a healthy and trim weight.

[kaylan]

I'm not insecure, and I'm not a vapid airhead.

Sorry, but surgery shortcuts scream insecurity to me. If one was secure in their natural body, they wouldnt need surgery to begin with. Especially surgery thats largely based on a patriarchal society's view of women as sex objects.

 

The sociology of women and cosmetic surgery in the last century should not be ignored.

But, OP be prepared for judgmental attitudes like this if she has it done. There are a lot of misconceptions about women who get their breasts done, including your own insecurity about her straying. I had mine done 10 years after having a baby I gave up for adoption. No amount of working out and eating right will get breasts perky again - it's all fat.

If you read my post, you can see I clearly said in cases like yours, I can understand more...even if I still think its lame.

 

However, the fact of the matter is, that many young women with fine perky small breasts, go under the knife to fix something that isnt a problem. I wouldnt call your breasts a problem either.

 

Just remember - haters gonna hate.

And insecure gals gonna be insecure. Excuse me for wanting people to love their body without the help of foreign materials and scalpels.

[kaylan]

So working out, eating better, having a good wardrobe, and grooming makes you insecure as well? No. It doesn't. Its self improvement. After i have children one day i am FOR SURE gunna get me some new titties. They're already Cs and on such a little body they look bigger. I don't want Fs but i don't want boobs that look like an orange in a tube sock either.

Laughable to compare healthy eating and fashion to surgery.

[Drseussgrrl]

Would you say the same thing for women wanting to get a nose job? How about wanting to go blonde if she's brunette?

 

My mom got a tummy tuck and breast lift after having four children. Now she feels great wearing a bathing suit again. Shopping is so much fun for her now. Her confidence is sky high and you can see it in her step. She swears it's the best thing she's ever done.

 

Unless you've walked a mile in someone else's shoes, please don't judge. You're not the one who has to walk around in a body that you don't feel comfortable in. Much of the time it has nothing to do with insecurity.

[edgygirl]

It happened after my divorce and several other issues. Also it's hard to not gain weight in America. Not that this your business honestly. And hmm who are you to judge? And who said my dating life tanked? I was sexy even when overweight for a couple of years and had a bf back then and another while losing weight and after. Both guys loved my boobs although they looked better when I was bigger. What I keep saying is that now I'm having a hard time finding someone I like and connect since I broke up in May. but i keep hearing from you guys that my love life sucks lol. Just because I'm looking now? Wth?

 

What I said is NOW my body is back to normal, 118 pounds on 5'4, perfect BMI and honestly my body looks perfect besides the boobs... when you lose weight the boobs sag. It's life reality. I have never been so happy about my body as now and I get complimented daily. I look much better than a lot of 30 yo. I'm skinny. All clothes look great on me.

 

But I totally appreciate the beauty of a chubby girl. I think being thin or not only matters to people who are influenced by the media and Barbie models. I can see beauty in all body shapes, as opposed to you. I lost the weight because I didn't feel mobile in the other body, I was tired a lot.

 

People who didn't have their boba sag should not give opinions on whether a woman should get implants as you just don't get it. That's my humble opinion. If you got part of your body botched and it was annoying you, wouldn't you fix it?

 

You're on here discouraged about getting quality guys, but you know in order to get the good ones that take care of themselves and are ambitious and going places, you can't let yourself go like that by gaining a ton of weight. I'm not going to ask you how did you let that happen, but are you surprised that your dating life tanked?? In my 40's I still have a killer figure and nice boobs, they aren't perky as they used to be, but they're not sagging either and I have kept my size C bra cup. I do need to tone my legs, build up my back and calf muscles, build bigger muscles on my arms, but that's about it. I said all that to say, you can't let yourself gain that much weight again if you want to be competitive in getting the guys you want.

 

P.S. A guy's worst nightmare is marrying a woman and her giving birth to a child and getting fat and sloppy. That is harsh to those who want to lose weight, but it's the truth.

[Drseussgrrl]

Feel lucky you're a man that doesn't have to experience how childbirth completely ravages your body.

[sweetkiwi]

Im talking about the thought behind it. If your balls hung down to your knees why wouldn't you get them fixed? Men don't have this issue. But as soon as we sprout breasts they begin to slowly but surely work their way down to your waistband. Especially the bigger ones. I like little boobs too. But that wasn't my bodies plan for me. I have big ones. I love my body. I am secure. But i know these puppies are going to look bad (for me because that's what matters) in ten years after i have the 4+ kids i want.

[kaylan]

Would you say the same thing for women wanting to get a nose job? How about wanting to go blonde if she's brunette?

 

My mom got a tummy tuck and breast lift after having four children. Now she feels great wearing a bathing suit again. Shopping is so much fun for her now. Her confidence is sky high and you can see it in her step. She swears it's the best thing she's ever done.

 

Unless you've walked a mile in someone else's shoes, please don't judge. You're not the one who has to walk around in a body that you don't feel comfortable in. Much of the time it has nothing to do with insecurity.

Again, surgery is not the same as hair color change. How can you not see that?

 

A women who had cancer or kids getting breast implants is very different from the many young women who get implants when nothing is wrong with their body.

 

Again, our patriarchal society's view of women as sex objects plays into this. And sadly you women perpetuate it. Id like a woman who sees herself as more than just breasts and can get her self esteem elsewhere. A young girl isnt defective just because her boobs arent perfect. She shouldnt have to feel like she has to fix anything with a knife.

 

It is insecurity, dont deny it. People secure with their body dont get surgery for merely cosmetic reasons. And trust me, Id love to change some things about my body, but I look at all my positives and simply work hard to make those things better. Id never go under the knife.

[kaylan]

Im talking about the thought behind it. If your balls hung down to your knees why wouldn't you get them fixed? Men don't have this issue. But as soon as we sprout breasts they begin to slowly but surely work their way down to your waistband. Especially the bigger ones. I like little boobs too. But that wasn't my bodies plan for me. I have big ones. I love my body. I am secure. But i know these puppies are going to look bad (for me because that's what matters) in ten years after i have the 4+ kids i want.

If more women weight trained instead of wasting all their time on cardio machines, they could keep their breasts perky for far longer. Saggy breasts dont have to be as inevitable as you make it.

 

That being said, men have plenty of issues. Height being one of them, and some guys get that painful surgery. I think that is silly too. All in all, I wouldnt go under the knife for height or saggy balls. Id make the most with what I have and take preventative measures to make sure Ill be happy with my body for a long time. Im not gonna gain and lose massive amounts of weight and then cry about needing to remove excess skin.

 

People need to take care of themselves, and also just be happy with themselves.

[Drseussgrrl]

Again, surgery is not the same as hair color change. How can you not see that?

 

A women who had cancer or kids getting breast implants is very different from the many young women who get implants when nothing is wrong with their body.

 

Again, our patriarchal society's view of women as sex objects plays into this. And sadly you women perpetuate it. Id like a woman who sees herself as more than just breasts and can get her self esteem elsewhere. A young girl isnt defective just because her boobs arent perfect. She shouldnt have to feel like she has to fix anything with a knife.

 

It is insecurity, dont deny it. People secure with their body dont get surgery for merely cosmetic reasons. And trust me, Id love to change some things about my body, but I look at all my positives and simply work hard to make those things better. Id never go under the knife.

 

*shrug* Well yeah, women like me, and my mother were insecure with the way having kids made our boobs look like sh*t. LOL

[kaylan]

Feel lucky you're a man that doesn't have to experience how childbirth completely ravages your body.

Tbh, if I was a woman, Id adopt or get a surrogate if I was that concerned about the physical consequences of pregnancy and childbirth. Some women actually go this route, and more power to them if they wanna do that. *kanye shrug*

[Drseussgrrl]

Tbh, if I was a woman, Id adopt or get a surrogate if I was that concerned about the physical consequences of pregnancy and childbirth. Some women actually go this route, and more power to them if they wanna do that. *kanye shrug*

 

Yeah, ok. There is something MUCH more superficial about a woman not wanting to carry her own child because she's repulsed by what pregnancy would do to her body. I really don't see how THOSE women are ANY better than someone who wants a little nip/tuck after she's earned her battle scars.

[xxoo]

From past experiences I've learn if the girl wants to stay there is no other guy that can make her leave and if she wants to leave there is nothing you can do to stop her.

 

That's the ultimate truth.

 

Would you want her to be with you because she didn't feel she had good enough boobs to be with someone else? Kind of weird to think of it that way!

 

Think of it this way: maybe she wants to feel more attractive for you.

 

But I totally appreciate the beauty of a chubby girl. I think being thin or not only matters to people who are influenced by the media and Barbie models. I can see beauty in all body shapes, as opposed to you. I lost the weight because I didn't feel mobile in the other body, I was tired a lot.

 

But not all breast shapes? Natural breasts are beautiful, even if they don't stand at attention.

[kaylan]

Yeah, ok. There is something MUCH more superficial about a woman not wanting to carry her own child because she's repulsed by what pregnancy would do to her body. I really don't see how THOSE women are ANY better than someone who wants a little nip/tuck after she's earned her battle scars.

I didnt say they were any better. I put them in the same boat actually.

[edgygirl]

It is not insecurity. It's simply annoying physically to have sagging breasts. Imagine your balls hanging and touching your legs in an annoying way whenever you are not wearing underwear.

 

I agree though that young women with no issues should not generally get it mainly because they're not mature yet.

 

As for feeling better and improving yourself, feel comfy in a vacation wearing a bikini, I don't see what's the problem with having surgery. Its great to improve what nature didn't do well for you. But only if the results are natural.

 

It's not always about how men will look at it, many times it is simply so a woman feels happier looking in the mirror and good about herself. What is exactly wrong with that?

[Els]

Feel lucky you're a man that doesn't have to experience how childbirth completely ravages your body.

 

Honestly, men who are actually emotionally ready to be good fathers, are also mature enough to accept that childbirth does leave physical changes on a woman's body. That doesn't excuse a 200 lbs gain, of course, but things like stretch marks, minor weight gain, change of breast size and perkiness, etc, is something that a mature man who is prepared to be a father should be able to live with. Women for centuries have given birth to their own children and not constantly plastered the natural consequences of childbirth up with plastics, and some men have lived with it and continued to love them.

 

If a man is unable to accept the natural effects of pregnancy on his wife, he isn't ready to be a father and the both of you shouldn't be having children together.

[Drseussgrrl]

Honestly, men who are actually emotionally ready to be good fathers, are also mature enough to accept that childbirth does leave physical changes on a woman's body. That doesn't excuse a 200 lbs gain, of course, but things like stretch marks, minor weight gain, change of breast size and perkiness, etc, is something that a mature man who is prepared to be a father should be able to live with. Women for centuries have given birth to their own children and not constantly plastered the natural consequences of childbirth up with plastics, and some men have lived with it and continued to love them.

 

If a man is unable to accept the natural effects of pregnancy on his wife, he isn't ready to be a father and the both of you shouldn't be having children together.

 

I agree. In my case though, I'm not married and it was an adoption 10 years ago.

[Imported]

Sorry, but surgery shortcuts scream insecurity to me.

 

 

Proper answer to all of this is, "Who the **** cares what it screams to you." Get over yourself.

[edgygirl]

But not all breast shapes? Natural breasts are beautiful, even if they don't stand at attention.

 

Oh I totally cqn appreciate all breasts shapes. It's just that, for me specifically, boobs are not physically comfy since my weight loss. They bother me when I'm not wearing a bra. And I like not using a bra while at home. And when I'm on top I can't relax lol cause I myself don't like how they look although the guy seems to be enjoying himself. Insecurity? Who knows. What if? I feel great about my body but if I can do something to feel even better and not self conscious, I will

 

Guys, how can you judge how someone else feels about something in their body? I personally think people look worse after a nose job 95% of times. But do I judge them for wanting to so it? I don't. People should do what makes them happier.