Danblock Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 First thing I wanna say is I didn't make this post to be funny I'm actually being serious. This girl that I've been dating for the past few months and has been my gf for the past three weeks told me over the weekend that she's buying herself breast implants for herself as a Christmas gift. I was surprised; however, the fact that she wanted them since she was 16, is paying for them by herself (didnt ask me for any money), and the facts it's her body. All I said was nice and congs to you (plus I've been her gf for only three weeks I don't believe my opinion would make that big of a difference anyways and I'm kinda looking towards it). Now that being said all the people that she told about it so far (both make and females) told me "I'm sorry" or said "Im on my way out". The two people I actually questioned and asked what do they mean they said when a girl gets implants theirneo goes though the roof. With that other guys will hit on her and the second you mess up you're out. From past experiences I've learn if the girl wants to stay there is no other guy that can make her leave and if she wants to leave there is nothing you can do to stop her. I wish to know other peoples experience or point of view about girls getting implants. Thank you
SmileFace Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 The implants will make no difference. It how she responds to the supposedly new attention she may or may not recieve. However this is all on her. 1
Author Danblock Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 If she gets no new attention (if that's possible) How would that effect her ?
Radu Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Smile is spot on with this one. Getting implants can be an indicator that she is insecure about her body. And yes, you could tell her something about it, since you are dating [even if for just 3 weeks]. LE: Oh, she will get new attention, so don't bet on that not happening. What's her cup size now and what will be her new cup size ? Why is she getting them ?
SmileFace Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 If she gets no new attention (if that's possible) How would that effect her ? It isn't about the attention but if she will be seeking a way out of a relationship.
Tara247 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Well, dude, I hate to tell you, but they're going to look fake and when you squeeze on them, they're going to feel like rocks. I'm serious and I'm sorry, and no, I don't have them. 1
ascendotum Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 What your friends alluded to can easily happen. I know examples where the women, got more attention, self esteem boost, and checked out of the relationship. (worse for the guy if he paid for them) It can be much easier to happen if the relationship is not long term and if her boobs really caused her a lot of insecurity which it sounds like it might have if she's be wishing them for years. It might happen and it might not, I think you are worrying about too soon. I am sure numerous posters will know of examples where the woman post boob job capitalized on thinking she's a better catch with the new attention and new body, but with nearly 500k boob ops done last year, the vast majority don't.
Drseussgrrl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Meh I have them and they're not a big deal. If she gets them done right they'll feel fantastic. Just because a woman gets a boob job doesn't mean she's going to be stepping out on you. That assumption is ridiculous. 1
edgygirl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I so wanna get them! Now that I'm thin again, my former beautiful boobs are gone :/ Do they feel and look natural if they're not gigantic?
Tara247 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I so wanna get them! Now that I'm thin again, my former beautiful boobs are gone :/ Do they feel and look natural if they're not gigantic? Edgy, did you not see where I posted that they look fake? A man can always tell when you have them. Also, you will have foreign material in your chest.
edgygirl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Edgy, did you not see where I posted that they look fake? A man can always tell when you have them. Also, you will have foreign material in your chest. I mean it's not ideal and I never expected to have to get them but... Mine are gone as I lost weight too fast and I'm self conscious and it's bothering me. Drseussgrrl and other friends I have seem happy with them. If it makes me feel confident in bed and not self conscious why not? I just want small ones like I had before. C cup max.
ascendotum Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I mean it's not ideal and I never expected to have to get them but... Mine are gone as I lost weight too fast and I'm self conscious and it's bothering me. Drseussgrrl and other friends I have seem happy with them. If it makes me feel confident in bed and not self conscious why not? I just want small ones like I had before. C cup max. But you are getting the good looking guys you want I thought you said (just not those that want long term). Most guys realize that when they go for a thin build woman, small boobs often come as part of the package, and many dont mind it (though jiggly is better than saggy) If the guys were getting awkward to play with your boobs or were saying something like 'wow what happened to your breasts, I thought you had never had kids' when you took your bra off, well then its a bit different. They don't do they??
CptObvious Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 danblock time to step your game up. You wanna hang on to that trophy you better start looking like a champion. Women can have a great chest overnight, but we gotta spend a decade in the gym. Ain't fair brotha but just take it one day at a time. You're likely to lose this girl but 5-10 years down the road you'll be at the top of your game.
edgygirl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 (edited) Hey problem is I gained a ton of weight after moving here (strees, work, relationships). than in the last couple of years I lost it all and have never loved my body as much as now. Side effect: nice full C boobs diminished and fell... sagged. In less than 1 year. Gone. Ugh! Judging by last guy I was with (fit 6') he didn't seem to mind at all, (we did it all night long lol), although it's not the same feeling I had before. And I was so self conscious, feel like a part of me is missing and although I'm thin I don't feel as sexy as when I was chubby with voluptuous boobs kind sad Girls... No intention to Pamela, just correcting to what I had. Or i'll have to rebuy all underwear hhe. edit; now that i think of it the guy did not play with them last time. yeah they're saggy must be scary. It was the first guy in 6 months so I didnt like it he didn't take care of them Edited December 19, 2012 by edgygirl
Tara247 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Hey problem is I gained a ton of weight after moving here (strees, work, relationships). than in the last couple of years I lost it all and have never loved my body as much as now. Side effect: nice full C boobs diminished and fell... sagged. In less than 1 year. Gone. Ugh! Judging by last guy I was with (fit 6') he didn't seem to mind at all, (we did it all night long lol), although it's not the same feeling I had before. And I was so self conscious, feel like a part of me is missing and although I'm thin I don't feel as sexy as when I was chubby with voluptuous boobs kind sad Girls... No intention to Pamela, just correcting to what I had. Or i'll have to rebuy all underwear hhe. edit; now that i think of it the guy did not play with them last time. yeah they're saggy must be scary. It was the first guy in 6 months so I didnt like it he didn't take care of them You're on here discouraged about getting quality guys, but you know in order to get the good ones that take care of themselves and are ambitious and going places, you can't let yourself go like that by gaining a ton of weight. I'm not going to ask you how did you let that happen, but are you surprised that your dating life tanked?? In my 40's I still have a killer figure and nice boobs, they aren't perky as they used to be, but they're not sagging either and I have kept my size C bra cup. I do need to tone my legs, build up my back and calf muscles, build bigger muscles on my arms, but that's about it. I said all that to say, you can't let yourself gain that much weight again if you want to be competitive in getting the guys you want. P.S. A guy's worst nightmare is marrying a woman and her giving birth to a child and getting fat and sloppy. That is harsh to those who want to lose weight, but it's the truth.
Radu Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 P.S. A guy's worst nightmare is marrying a woman and her giving birth to a child and getting fat and sloppy. That is harsh to those who want to lose weight, but it's the truth. Yes, yes, YESSSSS ! Give this woman a cigar [in a totally non-phallic way] !
phineas Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 OP, when I meet women who are interested in me or go out with women it's obvious I like to work out. They always ask me what my goals are & I just tell them i'm chasing that 6-pack. You can see it in their eyes & their facial expressions that their thinking once I achieve that i'll forget them to bang hotter chicks. Except, if i'm out with someone, it's because i'm attracted to her & there really are not a lot of hotter women out there at my age so i'd love to know where all these unicorns are hanging out. LOL! And even if a hotter chick was interested I still wouldn't just drop someone I was with because If i'm with them it's because I like them & see it going somewhere so why screw that up?
grkBoy Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 From past experiences I've learn if the girl wants to stay there is no other guy that can make her leave and if she wants to leave there is nothing you can do to stop her. I like your attitude. Too many guys would become crazy jealous types in the hopes of keeping other men from stealing her. I'm of the mind if foobies will make a girl dump you in a heartbeat, then it shows how much she's hot worth being with...and thus what other men are going to face. I'll be positive though and believe nothing will change.
mesmerized Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I actually agree with people who said things WILL change. A woman getting a boob job only to get bigger boobs is not doing it for any reason other than more male attention. Yeah we all heard the she wants to feel better about herself blah blah, not true. How bigger is she going?
grkBoy Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 ...then it shows how much she's hot worth being with... I meant to say "not" there instead of "hot". And I can so see this topic will become a 10-page "women are so shallow and evil" bash-a-thon.
sweetkiwi Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 If she wants breasts support her. If she wants to leave she will anyway, let her go. But just because she wants her breasts done doesn't mean she'll have an over inflated ego. Or that her new breasts will be hard. Most are. The trick is getting them under the muscle. 1
Radu Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 OP, when I meet women who are interested in me or go out with women it's obvious I like to work out. They always ask me what my goals are & I just tell them i'm chasing that 6-pack. You can see it in their eyes & their facial expressions that their thinking once I achieve that i'll forget them to bang hotter chicks. Except, if i'm out with someone, it's because i'm attracted to her & there really are not a lot of hotter women out there at my age so i'd love to know where all these unicorns are hanging out. LOL! And even if a hotter chick was interested I still wouldn't just drop someone I was with because If i'm with them it's because I like them & see it going somewhere so why screw that up? Lots of 18yr olds with daddy issues ... and they keep making more what with the number of divorces nowadays. Just sayin' man !
Drseussgrrl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I'm sure she's got it worked out with the surgeon, but I got mine under the muscle and they don't feel hard at all. Sure they don't sag like real breasts, but I'm fine with that. Nowadays you can get a good boob job that doesn't make you look like a porn star. Just enjoy them.
Imported Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Smile is spot on with this one. Getting implants can be an indicator that she is insecure about her body. And yes, you could tell her something about it, since you are dating [even if for just 3 weeks]. LE: Oh, she will get new attention, so don't bet on that not happening. What's her cup size now and what will be her new cup size ? Why is she getting them ? I know people that don't do things because they think other people will think whatever about them. That is insecure. She could be all, I love my body the way it is...even though its a lie even to herself, because she is afraid some dumb ass will think her insecure for making changes. That is insecure. Its her body, she's been planning since 16, she's gonna do it. Good for her. Seeing something you don't like about yourself and doing something about it, sure sign of a secure person. She may get more attention. If she cheats on you, deal with it as you would have if she never got a boob job. I mean, what were you gonna do, tell her not to get it'd one because you're worried her getting more attention will cause her to cheat? You already addressed that, if she wants to stay with you, she will. If she doesn't, she won't.
sweetkiwi Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I don't think men realize how much attention attractive women get all the time. Big boobs or not.
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