sweetkiwi Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 30 in four years is not a lot. If you average it out, it's about 7 a year, or less than one girl a month. This is why if a girl asks for my number I don't give it. Ahhh THAT'S why my ex never told me. He's a pimp like you Seriously the only things that keep/kept my number low is having LTRs. If all i had were ONSs id be at 10000.
sweetkiwi Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Dude that's a big number, specially for someone of his age. If he wants to get into a serious relationship at some point, he is going to be judged by the number if it keeps growing at this rate. The judgments aren't going to be positive ones either. Uhhm no he won't unless the girl is superficial. Maybe he'll have a woman that appreciates him for who he is as a whole person. You know how many times I've been judged negatively because of my sexual prowess or simply because i am seen as seductive? Its crazy the kinds of things people project into others. One ex of mine has been with so many women i swear he fhuked every girl in town. So he moved. Im sure he's still at it. He's living the dream. Well some peoples dream. I never judged him for it. Ever. That's not fair. Everyone has an opinion of how many is too many. And it only matters to the individual person. Besides that's just an estimate unless he's written it down somewhere.
SmileFace Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 (edited) Dude that's a big number, specially for someone of his age. If he wants to get into a serious relationship at some point, he is going to be judged by the number if it keeps growing at this rate. The judgments aren't going to be positive ones either. Not true. This isn't something I will judge someone over. Now if all those girls were drunk when had sex with them - That is different.If he had 1 girlfriend and cheated with 29 girls - that is different. A number is nothing but a number and makes no difference to some. However I pretty sure this isn't some thing he would be sharing with a girl and she shouldn't care. She should use his actions he takes with her to come up with her own judgement. Plus my number is barely half way to even making double numbers so I am not talking from a higher number end or anything. Either way it wouldn't matter. Edited December 19, 2012 by SmileFace 1
Lonely Ronin Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I know several women who would would judge him. I can't pretty much guess what the #1 concern would be to, does he have commitment issues.
SmileFace Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I know several women who would would judge him. I can't pretty much guess what the #1 concern would be to, does he have commitment issues. I not saying some women wouldn't judge him. However not everyone will. That just comes down to compatibility. I personal rather a guy waits until later in life to have committed relationships so if he wants to play the field at 22 that is up to him and probably fine with me. It is just different for each person - which was my point. 1
yongyong Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Is this written by a man? I don't think any man would say something like this to other men 'hey dude, stop banging many chicks' :lmao: Anyways, you can only guess the other person's sexual history just by looking at the person's face and their behavior (I am 100% sure this blonde I met at a bar is a slut) If he is the type of the guy who eats anything he can laying on the ground like hyena, then it would be a turn off. But if he is the type of the guy who goes after what he wants, attracts them and bang them in the end, majority of women will find him attractive. (do women buy things other women like or no?) As a man, you really don't have to worry about increasing your number of notches. How did it change you as you bang more girls? more confidence? better talker? better reader in women's behavior? I bet even Mormon girls will go for a guy who's confidence and knows how to talk to women with ## sexual records (they can't verify) than a virgin guy who has no clue about women. Dude that's a big number, specially for someone of his age. If he wants to get into a serious relationship at some point, he is going to be judged by the number if it keeps growing at this rate. The judgments aren't going to be positive ones either.
sweetkiwi Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Commitment issues? That's silly. Maybe the FEMALES didn't want relationships. My ex has had plenty of women. They just weren't compatible relationship wise. His first girlfriend was for 6 years. That's not a commitment phobe. That's just a guy who was having casual sex until he met someone he really liked.
MrCastle Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Dude that's a big number, specially for someone of his age. If he wants to get into a serious relationship at some point, he is going to be judged by the number if it keeps growing at this rate. The judgments aren't going to be positive ones either. Young people are having sex. More so now than ever. A lot of women believe it or not are into casual relationships. You take any reasonably good looking single guy who more or less knows how women work and what's needed to attract them and that number can get high in no time. Especially if you're one for the party scene where drug and alcohol use is thrown in and there are a lot of one night stands. Also OP said these girls weren't exactly skinny, and a lot of guys aren't into overweight girls, so now we're taking overweight girls who may be looking for any kind of intimate connections, and that number just gets bigger and bigger. People can only judge you on your number if you tell them. I just say "I've had my fun", sometimes I'm more blunt and say "I'm single, 25, and in college". I leave them to do with that info what they please. Either way, that number is personal and I don't have to give it to anyone I don't want to. I don't even tell my friends.
Lonely Ronin Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Is this written by a man? I don't think any man would say something like this to other men 'hey dude, stop banging many chicks' :lmao: Yea I'm a man with a lot more years and experience under my belt than the OP. But if he is the type of the guy who goes after what he wants, attracts them and bang them in the end, majority of women will find him attractive. (do women buy things other women like or no?) As SmileFace said some women will we be ok with this, some will not. Pretty much all the women in my social circle would have an issue with a number this high even at my age (early 30's). As a man, you really don't have to worry about increasing your number of notches. How did it change you as you bang more girls? more confidence? better talker? better reader in women's behavior? again this is a ridiculousness statement, as some women are going to have a real problem with certain numbers. Again some women would see it as a potential commitment issues, and others would see it as not being very discriminating.
phineas Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 If OP has any sense, he won't partake in the numbers game at all. He's damned if he does & damned if he doesn't. 2
GravityMan Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 5'9" and 150 lbs is slender...but in general (different people "wear" their weight differently) it's not THAT skinny. That's actually a decent weight for your height. While I think it's true that many women who are slender and/or petite prefer men who are physically bigger than them, I'm with the others who mentioned that your weight and build are not the problem here.
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