AKIRA Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Ok, they say men don't like to cuddle and only do it cause it's expected or out of obligation. However, then how do you explain a guy is likes to cuddle? One who reaches for you first or pulls himself next to you in the middle of the night? Or is there are difference, meaning a man, likes to and will cuddle with you on his own when he is emotionally into you and doesn't when he's not?. I've wondered about this one a lot myself. THANKS.
honey2005 Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 I guess all guys are different. Some like to cuddle, some don't.
seahorse Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 A agree with honey. Some do, some don't, and you just have to hope you find someone who likes what you like, or who loves you enough to give you what you need. I think it's true that in the first throes of love, a man who isn't a natural cuddler may be quite cuddly...while he's REALLY into you; but I think this type of bloke will revert back to his non touchy feely self once that, "I can't get enough of you, I want to eat you." feeling has gone. That may only be weeks, or it may be months or a year, but I think he'll then revert back, unless you manage to convert him!
kyozo Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 hmm I don't see how guys dont like cuddling, I love holding my gf and being close to her, but then again we dont see each other all that often but yeah
UCFKevin Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Ok, they say men don't like to cuddle and only do it cause it's expected or out of obligation. Yes, we all know how THEY are always so right. Please. I love to cuddle.
RowanRavyn Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 My honey is a cuddle bug. Thank the heavens for that. I love to cuddle.
manofmystrey Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Cuddling is great when u are about to go to bed. There is nothing better in this world then holding the person close to you as you sleep.
Pocky Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 My husband is more into affection than sex which would be considered odd by some. Men are different. They have different personalities, different needs, different desires and different thoughts. When you try to generalize you just confuse yourself more.
vhshowdown Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 I think cuddlin and nibblin is pretty cool. I think it all depends on the relationship whether some of us guys want to cuddle or not though. I mean some women just have an attraction we want to get next to, like a teddy bear! Others the attraction can be more of an intellectual relationship, where you love to talk to them all nite long......... I have been with one girl in my life where all that was true. And I let her get away! Lookin back, man, I am stupid! Also, the length of the relationship has something to do with it, where as we get into that comfortable as an old pair of shoes routine, the cuddlin usually fades, and instead we roll over and go to sleep instead.........
ImpulseFive Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 I greatly enjoy cuddling. Even after the new love flare dies out and is long gone. My girlfriend and I both naturally sleep in "partner challenged" positions, however, so it's mostly for comfort before sleep.
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