xpaperxcutx Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 The one thing that got to me was the fact she lied to your face even when all the facts were present. Maybe the first time she lied was to protect you, but the second and third lies affirm to she's a very selfish person. An STD is a serious issue. Transmiting it to you and then adamantly denying it is a serious character flaw of hers. If she can lie about an STD, what will she like about next? You definitely need to take a step back from this relationship because forgiving her so soon will only allow to think she can easily get away with lying to you. Trust needs to be build but you need to make her work for it. Also why was she having unprotected sex? In this day and age, it's better to have some kind of protection. Condoms are the most effective in preventing STDs. It doesn't matter if one is in a relationship or not, but using protection tells you what kind of person people are; whether they want to protect themselves or not.
Author hotrod413 Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 The one thing that got to me was the fact she lied to your face even when all the facts were present. Maybe the first time she lied was to protect you, but the second and third lies affirm to she's a very selfish person. An STD is a serious issue. Transmiting it to you and then adamantly denying it is a serious character flaw of hers. If she can lie about an STD, what will she like about next? You definitely need to take a step back from this relationship because forgiving her so soon will only allow to think she can easily get away with lying to you. Trust needs to be build but you need to make her work for it. Also why was she having unprotected sex? In this day and age, it's better to have some kind of protection. Condoms are the most effective in preventing STDs. It doesn't matter if one is in a relationship or not, but using protection tells you what kind of person people are; whether they want to protect themselves or not. Very true. I but I wouldn't necessarily judge every person who has had unprotected sex with someone. Not that I'm defending her, because what she did does determines that under most circumstances, but as far as just having unprotected sex, excluding me and my girlfriends situation, People do make mistakes. Doesn't mean they are evil people. But doing what my girlfriend Did definitely puts a mark on her back.
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