cantfigure Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I have started going out with a women I met a year ago andliked and at the time we connected on things we have in common and a noticeableattraction on both sides but nothing came of it. Recently she had contacted meand we started going out. We always have fun together and are very loving. Holdhands kissing the works. She even introduced me to one of her sons again. Werecently had sex and we both thought it was incredible. Like I said when were togetherit’s great. But she rarely calls on the phone if I call her it’s short hertexted message are nice but just a statement of what she’s doing not to provokea response. If I do respond I will never get one back. Phone calls are not personnelif she returns a call at all. I can’t even make any plans to do things. I really like her butI question her motives. Am I just a sex partner ?[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
TG1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I think she deep down is just seeing where things are going putting her guard up because she doesn't want to get too close because she fears that if she does, that you might want to leave
Author cantfigure Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 I think she deep down is just seeing where things are going putting her guard up because she doesn't want to get too close because she fears that if she does, that you might want to leave Thanks I thought of that but I'm realy stressed about it and don't know what to do at this point. A female friend told me to stay low and leave it in her ball park. But I dont want her to think I'm not intersterd or too needy if I keep contacting her.
TG1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Thanks I thought of that but I'm realy stressed about it and don't know what to do at this point. A female friend told me to stay low and leave it in her ball park. But I dont want her to think I'm not intersterd or too needy if I keep contacting her. I can understand that sentiment and I agree you should give her her space for now and let her come to you
todreaminblue Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Thanks I thought of that but I'm realy stressed about it and don't know what to do at this point. A female friend told me to stay low and leave it in her ball park. But I dont want her to think I'm not intersterd or too needy if I keep contacting her. if sh eputs up her guard because sh eis afraid to get close to you, and you do the same thing what happens......nothing.....ever......you shoudlnt drop the ball in her game...you shoudl run with it....take it and head for the goal........honesty is never needy it si just hoenst with what you feel....if relationships took this ball of honesty people would know exactly where they stadn and move upwards and onwards....the truth will set you free.......its not needy to tell soemoen how you feel....its when ignorance and inconsiderate behaviour come in you feel needy......and that istn from honesty its lack of thought on the person you are communicating with its an a reaction to an equal and opposite reaction...honesty vs ignorance and games.....honesty wins......in the long run no matter the outcome..........deb
TG1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 if sh eputs up her guard because sh eis afraid to get close to you, and you do the same thing what happens......nothing.....ever......you shoudlnt drop the ball in her game...you shoudl run with it....take it and head for the goal........honesty is never needy it si just hoenst with what you feel....if relationships took this ball of honesty people would know exactly where they stadn and move upwards and onwards....the truth will set you free.......its not needy to tell soemoen how you feel....its when ignorance and inconsiderate behaviour come in you feel needy......and that istn from honesty its lack of thought on the person you are communicating with its an a reaction to an equal and opposite reaction...honesty vs ignorance and games.....honesty wins......in the long run no matter the outcome..........deb I agree with this too 1
Author cantfigure Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 I just don't know if I have been too honest with her and have scared her off. I am not good at this game. But I do beleave in honesty. I come off very confident but the truth is I'm not. And I have been honest about that. Maybey a big error but the truth will come out it the end so why waste someones time.
TG1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I just don't know if I have been too honest with her and have scared her off. I am not good at this game. But I do beleave in honesty. I come off very confident but the truth is I'm not. And I have been honest about that. Maybey a big error but the truth will come out it the end so why waste someones time. Just be honest with her about how you feel and about what you have done in order to let your guard up, I am sure she will understand
Author cantfigure Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 Thanks guys just needed to run it all by someone. I more than likely think and worry to much. I have no trouble atractting women just a hard time keeping the ones I realy connect with. Witch are few and far.
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