itsmakaela Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 (edited) So me and my ex broke up about 3 weeks ago (will be 4 weeks on friday) anyways, he broke up with me because he said he had the same feeling he had when we had broken up before( the feeling was he loves me sometimes, sometimes he doesnt ) I was his first girlfriend and his first everything, as well as he was mine. He had liked me for 3 years and wanted me sooooo bad until I finally gave him a chance in march of this year. Since we have broken up, things have been crazy, I want him back so bad. He is always staring at me but he will not talk to me. he told me that i shouldnt talk to him but then He told his bestfriend he thought I moved on a couple weeks ago when I didnt text him back in like 3 minutes ( he had texted me first after 1 weekend of no contact) Afterwards things got weird... He still stares at me and my friend told him why dont you just go talk to her and he said he didn't want to. Me and him are both softball/baseball players so we have the same workout time at school and yesterday when I was working out , I glanced over like 3 times and he told his bestfriend that I need to stop looking over there. and a couple days ago, I went to his house to pick up some choclates from his sister that I had bought and he waited until I walked out of his house to come out of his room . ( i was there for a good 10 minutes, and 2 minutes into me being there , I heard his bedroom door open and him walk out and then all of a sudden he just stopped) my grandma was with me and she hadn't walked out of the house when I did and she saw him and she said Hi to him and he said hi back. He also deleted me off of facebook but not my family. his friends even think he has changed and this isn't the normal guy they know. He was my bestfriend my everything, we had a wonderful relationship, we were so comfortable with each other and Im still so close with his family. and were together for almost 9 months. All i want is him back.... ( Please help me! ((( Edited December 18, 2012 by itsmakaela
na49 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I know how you feel. My ex was my first for a lot of things too, and she really did become my best friend. When this happens, losing them is twice as hard and I really do understand how you're feeling. I miss my ex like crazy, she cheated on me, disrespected me, and I still miss her. I still want her back just to give us another chance. You would be wise to block him on facebook if you haven't. Snooping around his profile will KILL you. Trust me on that. It's also a good idea to not see him anymore, like don't go to his house. I don't care how close you are with is family. The longer you go without knowing what goes on in his life, the better you'll feel. You don't want to know how happy he is now, or that he's dating someone else and telling them everything he told you. There's no surefire way to get him back. If there was we'd all probably use it by now. But think of it this way, he can't miss you if you don't disappear. Believe me, he will miss you, when he does. He'll reach out to you. When he reaches out to you, it's up to you to decide if you are ready to speak to him with any feelings gone. If you have feelings, then ignoring him is probably best. I've been struggling with this right now. My ex contacts me, tells me she needs to talk to me. I don't know what she needs to talk to me about and I realize if she tells me something that I don't like, I'll be just as depressed as you are right now. Out of sight, out of mind. You can do this.
Author itsmakaela Posted December 18, 2012 Author Posted December 18, 2012 Thank you. I guess you're right. Just I have Christmas presents for him and his family that I bought before we broke up, and I can't really return them...So I don't know what to do but you're right. I'll just stay away from him for awhile and ignore him. Maybe he will come back...
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