LoveHurts88 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 So my ex who broke up with me its been around 4 months since breakup. Im now pretty much over her. Still think about her everyday but its almost to a point where i dont care anymore... Anyways my ex always finds a way to contact me every few days i reply because im doing good now. Shes seeing someone else. Whys she doing this? When i think about her leaving me for someone else after 2 years and after all that we have been through it pisses me off
Chi townD Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Why is she doing this? HI FRIEND ZONE!!!! IT'S BEEN AWHILE!!!!! She dumped you for someone else after a 2 year relationship. She's feeling guilty and would love to tell herself, "OH LOOK!! Things didn't work out between me and him and we're still really good 'friends' I guess it really was for the best!" That's why she's contacting you.
Author LoveHurts88 Posted December 18, 2012 Author Posted December 18, 2012 I dont see her, i never initiate any contact. Lol it wouldnt matter if i was friendZoned because i dont plan on getting back with her. I dont talk to her idc about what she does anymore lol
Chi townD Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I dont see her, i never initiate any contact. Lol it wouldnt matter if i was friendZoned because i dont plan on getting back with her. I dont talk to her idc about what she does anymore lol You're first post states that you talk to her because you're pretty much over her....so, do you talk to her or don't you?
Author LoveHurts88 Posted December 18, 2012 Author Posted December 18, 2012 Lol i talk to her when she msgs so i guess i do talk to her but it doesnt matter to me
Mike_d Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Lol i talk to her when she msgs so i guess i do talk to her but it doesnt matter to me cool, then this should be an easy one. stop talking to her, stop returning her texts, block her #. move on with your life 1
na49 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Why is she doing this? HI FRIEND ZONE!!!! IT'S BEEN AWHILE!!!!! She dumped you for someone else after a 2 year relationship. She's feeling guilty and would love to tell herself, "OH LOOK!! Things didn't work out between me and him and we're still really good 'friends' I guess it really was for the best!" That's why she's contacting you. I'll be rereading this post a few times lol. They pretty much nailed it OP. It's friend zone BS if she's seeing someone else. You don't want to be her friend anyway.
flitzanu Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Whys she doing this? because you keep replying to her. 1
cavalier99 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 (edited) Yeah. You've been friend zoned and are a possible backup plan if her new boyfriend doesn't work out. Or at a minimum your a shoulder to cry on when ever she has a rough time. You will become her emotion tampon if you keep on communicating.. just like her other girl friends. . Soon she will be asking you advise on her boyfriend ecetera and telling you about the romantic thing he does and what they are doing lol Edited December 18, 2012 by cavalier99 1
Mike_d Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Cliffs: Stop answering the texts. lol. TL;DR needs to go NC
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