aFighter Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 My ex who cheated on me & then ditched me afterwards for the guy she was...*ahem* anyway I found out today they got married. it's been a few months since we split and they're gd married. makes me wonder just how long *was* she seeing this guy anyway? Doesn't really matter anyway. Once a cheater always a cheater & she'll end up sleeping around behind his back in the end, more fool him.
Pocky Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Lucky for you he helped you see what a mistake you would have made if you married her
UCFKevin Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Just think of it this way. Before she was your problem. Now she's his. History will repeat itself. You're clear now. Thank your lucky stars.
KaiaMahina Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Her new hubby had better keep his eyes peeled. Cause like my friend says, "If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you."
Author aFighter Posted August 13, 2004 Author Posted August 13, 2004 you're right folks. I'm not distressed or crying into my cereal about it, hehe. Just a little "woh! That was fast. You [censored by me]" y'know? hindsight I can see how mean she really was. The quips, small put downs like y'know if you get something wrong they make a big deal of it by making a joke of it & trying to make you look stupid. she was kinda selfish too & a user. Those things the rose colored glasses of love blind us to. I guess a deep down part will always miss the good times, that's natural. She's gone & I haven't spoken to her in two months & I don't plan on speaking to her for the rest of my life. Better off that way.
KaiaMahina Posted August 15, 2004 Posted August 15, 2004 I'm glad to know that you're not crying into your cereal; it would distress me to think of you eating soggy, salty corn flakes. If, however, you decide to cry into anything, I suggest Southern Comfort on the rocks.
carolina Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Those who cheat for you will also cheat on you. As hard and painful as I'm sure it may be now, count your blessings that you're not the one who married her. She must not know what she wants if she can go b/w from one guy to the other so quickly!!
Author aFighter Posted August 16, 2004 Author Posted August 16, 2004 Originally posted by KaiaMahina If, however, you decide to cry into anything, I suggest Southern Comfort on the rocks. I'm partial to Bacardi myself
kellydontwanttasleep Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Those who cheat for you will also cheat on you. thats a good one and true
blackheart Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Everything you all say makes sense. I just wish it was that easy to accept. My wife cheated on me three times (that I know of). The first two times I took her back. I just found out about the third two hours ago. It was why she left me (again) three weeks ago. I don't know what hurts worse. The pain in getting cheated on again by her or the patheticness I feel about still wanting to somehow work things out.
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