Just smile Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Ugh day four didn't sleep. Heart hurts, feel like I'm in a cloud. Feel weak, vulnerable and like I want to call and probably end up making a fool out of myself, I'm shocked he hasn't reached out to me all weekend and these past two days.. Im assuming he's done as well.. Does anyone have info on the Lisa Scott narcisstic board!! ?? I've forgotten my user name and when tried to log in I was banned frm the entire site!!!!
Mel2011 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 DO NOT contact him! Keep your chin up and stay strong. You can do this!
geegirl Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Ugh day four didn't sleep. Heart hurts, feel like I'm in a cloud. Feel weak, vulnerable and like I want to call and probably end up making a fool out of myself, I'm shocked he hasn't reached out to me all weekend and these past two days.. Im assuming he's done as well.. Does anyone have info on the Lisa Scott narcisstic board!! ?? I've forgotten my user name and when tried to log in I was banned frm the entire site!!!! Stay strong. He can't soothe your pain. He IS your source of pain. It's similar to getting over an addiction. This is where you are detoxing and it's the most uncomfortable feeling but you have to feel it in order to get past it. Remember, contact does not change a thing. It's a temporary fix and soon enough you go right back to that dark corner you once came from. Talking won't change him or the situation.
TerpVet87 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I broke no contact and I can tell you it makes you feel better for about a second then either one of two things can happen. Either they don't respond, in which case you feel even worse than before, or they do respond and won't say what you want them to say, and you feel terrible and foolish. I know what we all plan on saying to our ex's seems like its the perfect thing to say and it will win them back, but that's almost never the case.
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