Author lisebye Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 The next time we will be together is in 1 month
Author lisebye Posted December 20, 2012 Author Posted December 20, 2012 Before it was very hard to be far from her- Now it's even worse!
justwhoiam Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 We both live in countries where homosexuality is no accepted We've been going back and forth in each other's country to be together It's not that you went to another country, you visit each other where you live. Do you think people don't see you or don't realize? Are you hiding all the time? You can't ask us how to get over your issues, when you know from the start that you shouldn't overlook those issues. You just see her as your only option, that is why she's hard to let go.
LittleTiger Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 To LittleTiger: I'm a female Then it seems that she is unable to be faithful to you because of the distance.....and you DO have a choice. Some people are not capable of being in LDRs because they are unable to manage without constant physical contact with their partner. If your gf is one of those people then this relationship will not work. So your choices are to forgive her and move on and hope that the same thing won't happen again - obviously you would need to learn to trust her again which may be tricky given the distance - OR - you can just break it off and perhaps find someone who lives closer to you. Neither are easy options but they are really the only ones you have. Good luck. 1
Author lisebye Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 How do I forgive? how do stop thinking about what she did?
Author lisebye Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 I'm going to try to get a "couple cousellor" for us when she comes in January
Author lisebye Posted December 21, 2012 Author Posted December 21, 2012 I pray this month will go fast!
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