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Long story short. My 20 year old boyfriend of 3 years left me 2 weeks ago for 16 year old xbox live girl that lives across the country. His cousin passed away a month ago. They were close. He's bipolar and schizophrenic. The girl admitted he still loves me. She just left her boyfriend. He flipped out on me yesterday for telling her he kinda still talks to me and deleted me off xbox live and everything.I basically sent him a goodbye message last night. He texted me this morning saying hi. I replied hi.. He said you don't have to quit talking to me idc what she says. I said Baby.. You don't understand i WANT you.. Idk how you feel though.. But that's what I want.. He said You don't understand. I was like Understand what? i understand i love you and why youd go all crazy on me last night? He said I dont know anything right now and you drove me there. I said I never thought I'd see the day that you of all people would choose another person over me... Im really shook up, upset, and hurt.. :'(. He said Im weird right now im not even thinkin baby girl. I sent him a picture saying Can you believe that this was taken 3 years ago... We were so happy then... He said i know... I said I Love you and I always will. He said i Know... I said This really hurts I'm crying. He said dont cry... I said is there a chance i will ever get you back he said we will have too see. I sent him another picture of us a few hours ago and he said ... Some people say hes using her until he gets over his cousin. Why does he wanna keep me around? Do you think he still cares? I love him so much.

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Long story short. My 20 year old boyfriend of 3 years left me 2 weeks ago for 16 year old xbox live girl that lives across the country. His cousin passed away a month ago. They were close. He's bipolar and schizophrenic. The girl admitted he still loves me. She just left her boyfriend. He flipped out on me yesterday for telling her he kinda still talks to me and deleted me off xbox live and everything.I basically sent him a goodbye message last night. He texted me this morning saying hi. I replied hi.. He said you don't have to quit talking to me idc what she says. I said Baby.. You don't understand i WANT you.. Idk how you feel though.. But that's what I want.. He said You don't understand. I was like Understand what? i understand i love you and why youd go all crazy on me last night? He said I dont know anything right now and you drove me there. I said I never thought I'd see the day that you of all people would choose another person over me... Im really shook up, upset, and hurt.. :'(. He said Im weird right now im not even thinkin baby girl. I sent him a picture saying Can you believe that this was taken 3 years ago... We were so happy then... He said i know... I said I Love you and I always will. He said i Know... I said This really hurts I'm crying. He said dont cry... I said is there a chance i will ever get you back he said we will have too see. I sent him another picture of us a few hours ago and he said ... Some people say hes using her until he gets over his cousin. Why does he wanna keep me around? Do you think he still cares? I love him so much.

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Long story short. My 20 year old boyfriend of 3 years left me 2 weeks ago for 16 year old xbox live girl that lives across the country. His cousin passed away a month ago. They were close. He's bipolar and schizophrenic. The girl admitted he still loves me. She just left her boyfriend. He flipped out on me yesterday for telling her he kinda still talks to me and deleted me off xbox live and everything.I basically sent him a goodbye message last night. He texted me this morning saying hi. I replied hi.. He said you don't have to quit talking to me idc what she says. I said Baby.. You don't understand i WANT you.. Idk how you feel though.. But that's what I want.. He said You don't understand. I was like Understand what? i understand i love you and why youd go all crazy on me last night? He said I dont know anything right now and you drove me there. I said I never thought I'd see the day that you of all people would choose another person over me... Im really shook up, upset, and hurt.. :'(. He said Im weird right now im not even thinkin baby girl. I sent him a picture saying Can you believe that this was taken 3 years ago... We were so happy then... He said i know... I said I Love you and I always will. He said i Know... I said This really hurts I'm crying. He said dont cry... I said is there a chance i will ever get you back he said we will have too see. I sent him another picture of us a few hours ago and he said ... Some people say hes using her until he gets over his cousin. Why does he wanna keep me around? Do you think he still cares? I love him so much.

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How old are you and your boyfriend? Does he realize it's probably illegal for him to be messing around with an underage girl?

 

As to your question of why he's still talking to you... he's stringing you along. Why give you up when he can have you both?

 

If you really want any hope of getting him back... STOP talking to him entirely. No texts, no xbox live, no facebook... nothing. Let him miss you.

 

However... why would you want this loser back? He dumped you for some other girl and he gets pissed at you when you infringe upon his game by talking to her. Wow.

 

For your sake.. move on!

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How old are you and your boyfriend? Does he realize it's probably illegal for him to be messing around with an underage girl?

 

As to your question of why he's still talking to you... he's stringing you along. Why give you up when he can have you both?

 

If you really want any hope of getting him back... STOP talking to him entirely. No texts, no xbox live, no facebook... nothing. Let him miss you.

 

However... why would you want this loser back? He dumped you for some other girl and he gets pissed at you when you infringe upon his game by talking to her. Wow.

 

For your sake.. move on!

 

We're both 20. The reason why I'm so attached to him is because he's my first love

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'He's bipolar and schizophrenic'

 

RUN....

 

You are VERY lucky.. you get another chance at life. RUN

 

Do not look back. Its hard but you DO NOT want to waste another minute of your life there.

 

Long story short. My 20 year old boyfriend of 3 years left me 2 weeks ago for 16 year old xbox live girl that lives across the country. His cousin passed away a month ago. They were close. He's bipolar and schizophrenic. The girl admitted he still loves me. She just left her boyfriend. He flipped out on me yesterday for telling her he kinda still talks to me and deleted me off xbox live and everything.I basically sent him a goodbye message last night. He texted me this morning saying hi. I replied hi.. He said you don't have to quit talking to me idc what she says. I said Baby.. You don't understand i WANT you.. Idk how you feel though.. But that's what I want.. He said You don't understand. I was like Understand what? i understand i love you and why youd go all crazy on me last night? He said I dont know anything right now and you drove me there. I said I never thought I'd see the day that you of all people would choose another person over me... Im really shook up, upset, and hurt.. :'(. He said Im weird right now im not even thinkin baby girl. I sent him a picture saying Can you believe that this was taken 3 years ago... We were so happy then... He said i know... I said I Love you and I always will. He said i Know... I said This really hurts I'm crying. He said dont cry... I said is there a chance i will ever get you back he said we will have too see. I sent him another picture of us a few hours ago and he said ... Some people say hes using her until he gets over his cousin. Why does he wanna keep me around? Do you think he still cares? I love him so much.
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