dasein Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Personal experience with this exact thing in the past, though the woman in question was professing undying love and talking marriage every day while talking with men OLD, one of whom she ended up cheating on me with. Go... now. This person is low quality of the worst sort to keep you around as a safety net while she hunts the BBD. Despicable. Don't tolerate it, take out the trash and move on.
ThaWholigan Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I've read quite a few of your past posts Sabian and I feared you would post something like this . This girl is very likely using you as a safety blanket until her ego fully recovers from whatever took place in her last relationship. After that happens, it can go either way, and right now she's clearly on the fence and has been for a whole year. I would not tolerate this personally. I think you would be better off treating it the same way she is. 1
veggirl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 sorry veggirl, this is my perspective as a woman, not a girl. i keep my options open until i see a guy is serious about a commitment. having a dating profile up is not considered cheating, is it? get real and grow up. you sound like one of those girls who get wrapped around her bf as if he's the last man on earth, then you wonder why he backs off. let's agree to disagree. so sorry I have the word "girl" in my username, I assure you I am all woman Feel free to peruse my thoughts on other threads and then come back and tell me I am clingy, lmao.
veggirl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Anyway, Sabian, what is your plan? Again, a year is enough time to know you wanna be exclusive. If she is unsure, you need to date other people. For some reason people are acting like you never asked her to exclusive, from my understanding you have since you know she is not ready for it. Why don't you tell her "I can't wait for you anymore"
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