Mark1 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 -A few weeks ago I met a girl her on OKC -She didn't have too much written on her profile, and her texts seemed bitchy, so I was skeptical of how it would go -Her profile answers made her sound very sexual; for example "very" for "how kinky are you" and "1-2" for "how many dates would it take for u to sleep w someone" -So we meet for lunch inbetween work, and it turns out she is REALLY cool. Has traveled all over the world, dresses well, 27, working on her masters, voted the same way I did in the election -We were sharing stories of bad dates from OKC, and she tells me this: "So I was over at this guys house for a first date. We were playing mario kart, and drinking, and after 2 beers, I was feeling...frisky. (at this point I said "it only takes 2 drinks, huh? lulz" and she laughed). So he went down on me, and it was great. But, you know, if a guy is going to go that far on a first or second date, I think lesser of him." "Isn't that a bit hypocritical of you?" - I asked. "Yes, it is, and I know that. But its just how I feel" -her. She continues, "and then after I left he would NOT stop texting me. Sending me paragraphs about how I'm good for him, and he's good for me, and how we'd be great in bed. He thought that since I let him go down on me, that the next step would be sex, and that's just not how I do things" So that was interesting. -I give her a hug, and a kiss on the cheek at her door, and we part ways. -We keep texting over the next few days, and she says that we shouldn't meet up again because she was looking for something more serious than I -I said okay, but asked if she would be interested in FWB -She replied, "That is very, very tempting, as I find you very attractive. However, I have started to see someone, and we have slept together, so I'd like to see how things go" -I ignored her for a week or so, then texted her to ask her how her relationship is going. She said its going well, but she does want to hang out with me. She said it would have to be "in public, so I wouldn't act on my feelings for you" She also said "I have some ideas of what I want to do to you, but with me being seeing this guy, but its naughty[/b] -So we are going out for lunch tomorrow, (I am picking her up) and out for my birthday in a week or so. With a text like "we can hang out in public, so I wouldn't act on my feelings for you," and us going out for drinks for my bday, is she basically begging me to hook up with her?
SmileFace Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Well sir, seek protection because you are more than likely going to get your dick wet. Use a condom 3
ThaWholigan Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Extra safe condoms my friend. Although I'm not in the business of having sex with girls that have boyfriends, it doesn't seem like this is serious as they only just started sleeping with each other. Nonetheless, this is an arrangement I would personally back away from with dat speed. 1
yongyong Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 how does this chick look? If she falls into classy chick category, I guess you realized how slutty women can be. anyways, definitely meet for a drink at a bar. Bar is a 'public place' lol you don't have to make out with her at a bar. I give her a hug, and a kiss on the cheek at her door, and we part ways. At that moment, just simply say 'can I use your restroom'? I don't have to explain what to do next right?
Author Mark1 Posted December 18, 2012 Author Posted December 18, 2012 Should I try to hook up with her after lunch, or wait until we go out for drinks?
yongyong Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Unless she gives you seductive eyes and invite you to 'stop by' at her house after lunch, I would wait for the bar. As she drinks more, she will have less anti-slut-defense. Btw, it's better for you to ask in pua forums since women here will bitch about you are trying to exploit this girl. Should I try to hook up with her after lunch, or wait until we go out for drinks? 1
SmileFace Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Unless she gives you seductive eyes and invite you to 'stop by' at her house after lunch, I would wait for the bar. As she drinks more, she will have less anti-slut-defense. Btw, it's better for you to ask in pua forums since women here will bitch about you are trying to exploit this girl. How can he exploit some one who is talking to him in a sexual manner. She may be acting as if she doesn't want the dick but she wants the dick...lol. Which isn't the same as exploiting any one. However be aware that you may be banging someone in a relationship - karma is a bitch and a half..FYI.
MrCastle Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Am I the only one who feels for the boyfriend? 3
veggirl Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Am I the only one who feels for the boyfriend? Her bf is prob attracted to the crazy....it's not like she hides it! 1
Els Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 What a freaking mess this girl is. Do you really want to screw someone like that? Have some standards, dude, and at least pick a single girl, not one who's cheating on her bf!
yongyong Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Sometimes I think about karma. But I don't know if it applies in this situation? eg: When you were single, you didn't pursue a person with a bf/gf because you felt guilty. Now you have bf/gf. Will you expect Others not to hit on your partner?? because you didn't too??? :lmao: OR you know it will happen (people hitting on your bf/gf) but you trust your partners character??? Which is more important Good Karma Record Vs a trustworthy BF/GF Isn't it f-ing obvious? yes I feel bad for her bf for dating a girl Like that. you don't think she isn't going to bang other guy if he backs off? BTW, I met this chick at a bar. when I asked her #, she told me about her bf. I just pushed for number saying we should be friends. She added how jealous her bf is. so I told her you should be happy since he cares about you she said it was driving her nuts. I will see how far I can push this. I don't have any moral problem for banging a girl with a some guy temporarily. - karma is a bitch and a half..FYI.
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