Sugarkane Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Especially if you lead us on and be half naked eg at the beach. With the same excuses eg" you deserved it" and " you lead me on and shouldve been a mind reader". Women get blamed yet I see men shirtless at the beach. We aren't stronger but it's not impossible to drug someone. Sounds ridiculous? Yet women are always victim blamed.
Muhrica Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 men get raped all the time. You just don't hear about it as often. I'd even go so far as to say an equal amount in comparison to females getting raped. 1
sweetkiwi Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Guys have been raped. Date raped too Im sure. Its sad and violent no matter who it happens to.
Ami1uwant Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 men dont report it as much as women....and the nes doesnt cover it because they dont believe a man can be rapped...with the exception if someone getting gang raped due to them being perceived as gay---like coming out of a known gay bar.
dasein Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Technically I've been raped several times in life by women, all GFs. There's really no equivalent of "no means no" for guys. I don't feel particularly damaged or abused because of it, I just come real fast so it can be over and I can go to sleep. Usually has happened when feeling sick or tired and she's been drinking.
SmileFace Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Plenty of men get date raped, do you have any idea how many women go on a date to get a free meal? Furthermore, plenty of men wake up filled with regret over having banged the heifer next to them after a night of heavy boozing. Raped for money. This post ranks up there with the op. Dear Bob, I swear.
amaysngrace Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 My friend Mike left a party one time and went for a walk on the beach and when he came back to the party he said he just got raped. He was pretty happy about it.
TG1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Men do get raped but not as often as women do and when we do get raped, we tend not to report it especially if it is a woman that rapes us and especially if it is a woman that we aren't even into or don't even know because we just tend to keep it bottled up inside of us until we just snap and can't take it anymore but if it is man on man rape, then it is a different story altogether
TouchedByViolet Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 It's not rape if she yells Surprise! first
TG1 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Plus with men getting raped, it's rare especially now in this day and age even though it does happen
todreaminblue Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 (edited) men get raped all the time. You just don't hear about it as often. I'd even go so far as to say an equal amount in comparison to females getting raped. Honestly doubt its equal....... i do believe it can happen...... theres one thing i know though when a man is taking drugs especially downers his erection would remain the same down....anal rape by an object maybe........this i dont believe happens very often at all except in a mans goal........then it is quite frequent ....... a woman when given a mickey.....takes a certain amount of time before it takes effect normally enough tiem fro teh perpetrator to put the womans arm around their shoulder lead them out of the club like they are an awesome supportive friend....a guy who knows hwo the mickey woudl effect him ro wear off..........men can take them somewhere...if she is conscious by the time she gets there.....its not long before she isnt(again men can throw off drugs much quicker)....she can be raped repeatedly.....mouth.....vaginally anally....and then be dumped somewhere in the morning with complete memory loss or partial just left with trace evidence and unsure what th ehell happened to her.........if a guy is slipped a mickey they are not easily carried by a woman or transported or dragged or whatever like a woman can be dragged into a room and dumped off later.......its simple logic so i dont agree as many men get raped as women.....i do believe that if a man was raped he woudl not take it to court....as i beleive a woman who was slipped a mcikey woudlnt have a leg to stand on......most rapes go undisclosed with unfortunately...nature of the beast and society....and past histories being dragged through a drawn out an ddifficult to prove court case....these are facts...horribel but true...rape is oen of thos ethings that has to be proven liek murder beyond a shadow o fdoubt to hav ehappened those shadows are always there.....i admire women who go through it adn i rejoice when i hear it has been proven beyond that shadow of doubt.....sadly how many times do you read int eh newspaper of convictions....when rape happens on a daily basis all over the world......it just isnt out there..its not abel to eb statistically justified if people dont come forward..those peopel men adn women at oen time or another deal with th erape in their own way....reclaiming the night is a worthwhile healing tool..deb Edited December 19, 2012 by todreaminblue
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