Pippos Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 OK, so here we go. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years with out much in the way of problems, but about 8 months ago I found out she was texting naked photos of herself to some random guy. When I confronted her about it, she said it was because she had just been to her sisters wedding and was not ready for that kind of commitment yet. Anyways I forgave her for it and we moved on. Then about 3 months ago when my head was all messed up and confused about what I wanted in life, I told her I wasn't sure if I loved her anymore. We then went through a rough patch but we worked it out and we were all good. Anyway I found out the other day that about a week after I told her I didn't love her, that she cheated on me. I'm not sure what I should do. I still love her enough to forgive her, but I'm not sure whether I should. She regrets it very much and has been crying constantly for the last 2 days, but I'm not interested in being a doormat.
denxnis Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Similar shoes as you. Forgave her after she cried and begged me to take her back for a good week. 3 years later she left me for her coworker. We were together for 6 years. Not only am I successful but I find myself to be good looking. Woman like this are constantly seeking approval/attention from others when you don't give it to them. While I was busy working 40+ hours and going to school she was getting more attention from someone else and LOVED it. Ask yourself, if you ever marry this person could you go on a week, 2 week long business trip and not have to worry about her?
tjackson1 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I wouldn't. They do it once they will do it again. And plus that is a huge trust she broke. But if you do forgive her and give her a second chance at least get couples counseling/Theropy.
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