cosmo992 Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I am 28 wanna meet older men... like 39-50 someone stable, handsome, responsible, etc how do I meet older men? do not have time for "boys". want someone with a good job, experience, hard working...
normal person Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 If you can't find one at 28, you're probably looking in the wrong place. Most males are no longer "boys" at your age. There are plenty of 28 year olds who are hard working, have good jobs, etc. They eventually become the 39-50 year olds you're after. Most guys 39-50 worth your time are married and have kids. 2
Illusionist Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Kinda seems like a trend these days... kinda disturbing... if the guys they look for get even older, then women will start to date guys who could be their dads. Being mature has nothing to do with the age. But maybe you will learn that after dating some 40 to 50 year old male longterm singles.
Radu Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Kinda seems like a trend these days... kinda disturbing... if the guys they look for get even older, then women will start to date guys who could be their dads. Being mature has nothing to do with the age. But maybe you will learn that after dating some 40 to 50 year old male longterm singles. What's wrong with that ???
stillafool Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Kinda seems like a trend these days... kinda disturbing... if the guys they look for get even older, then women will start to date guys who could be their dads. Being mature has nothing to do with the age. But maybe you will learn that after dating some 40 to 50 year old male longterm singles. Yeah and what's more disturbing is when they get with these older men, 20 years later they will want to experience a younger man because the older guys will be too old at that point. OP there are plenty of men in their 30's who are goodlooking, responsible, hardworking and ambitious. But, if you think you only qualify for an old man go for it.
IT Geek Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I am 28 wanna meet older men... like 39-50 someone stable, handsome, responsible, etc how do I meet older men? do not have time for "boys". want someone with a good job, experience, hard working... Handsome rules me out.
aMguilts Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 Yeah and what's more disturbing is when they get with these older men, 20 years later they will want to experience a younger man because the older guys will be too old at that point. OP there are plenty of men in their 30's who are goodlooking, responsible, hardworking and ambitious. But, if you think you only qualify for an old man go for it. cough cough and 40`s cough aM
Caldespair Posted December 21, 2012 Posted December 21, 2012 If my stbxw does not want to work with me on improving our relationship, I will be looking for a meaningful connection in future. But as noted above, many great guys your age bracket who meet what u need. Good luck
ZxExD Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I am a man, therefore I am. Would love to be with someone younger for a change. Why should all the cougar's have all the fun? It seems like all I get is older women, being they are older than me. And its hard to start a convo with someone younger, what am I suppose to say? I have no clue the name of the guys in NSYNC or boys to men, and think Justin Beiber is a douche. LMAO. I guess I am kind of old school, enjoying the outdoors, cuddling next to a fire while watching it snow out the window. Oh well, maybe someday.
soccerrprp Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 He meant that older is not more responsible. It depends on each person. You can see a lot of guys in their 40s still playing around. Oh, yeah! Plenty of men in their 40s playing around! Most are divorced and feeling FREE and revived to play the field and many(most) do!
M30USA Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Find a man who is "ambitious" in regard to things of God and eternal truths, not things which bring success in the ways of the world's system. But it takes an equally mature woman to even WANT a man like this.
soccerrprp Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Find a man who is "ambitious" in regard to things of God and eternal truths, not things which bring success in the ways of the world's system. But it takes an equally mature woman to even WANT a man like this. I find that women on OLD who put "ambitious" mean exactly that- worldly, materialistic....code for "you should be making lot's of money..." LOL!
M30USA Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I find that women on OLD who put "ambitious" mean exactly that- worldly, materialistic....code for "you should be making lot's of money..." LOL! Yep. One learns in life how to translate code words and phrases.
Ross MwcFan Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Building sites? Any place really where a bunch of alpha males hang out swinging their hips as they walk talking about who has got the biggest cock.
todreaminblue Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I am 28 wanna meet older men... like 39-50 someone stable, handsome, responsible, etc how do I meet older men? do not have time for "boys". want someone with a good job, experience, hard working... at a church that gives truth as a way fo living....hard work effort and faith.......thats what i reckon....;0)...real men dont eat quiche they may like it, but they go to church and eat quiche after and sometimes they even help make it.... no rabbits in it though....deb
ScienceGal Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I find that women on OLD who put "ambitious" mean exactly that- worldly, materialistic....code for "you should be making lot's of money..." LOL! I'm just one data point, but ambitious to me means someone who wants to get out and do things (not partying). Someone who has hobbies that keep him occupied, or who finds something he cares about and gets involved, who likes accomplishments and progress. Someone who doesn't constantly say that they're bored. This can also mean a desire to find a good job and make money. To me, this equals security for a future home and family, not necessarily materialism. I don't ever expect to be wealthy, but I don't want to be poor either. I work hard to live comfortably, and I'd like a partner who does the same. OLD felt weird and unnatural to me. I tried it briefly, but never dared to actually meet up with anyone. 1
stillafool Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 My friend's daughter is 25 and just got engaged to a really handsome, hardworking 28 year old man. They are out there. 2
Ross MwcFan Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Know of any poker clubs? Should be some good male strutting sausage fests in one of those.
todreaminblue Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Know of any poker clubs? Should be some good male strutting sausage fests in one of those. lol cards are boring sausages at card nights hmmmm....just went vegan
carhill Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 how do I meet older men? do not have time for "boys". want someone with a good job, experience, hard working... Country club and classic car shows/auctions. Dress sharp. Good luck. 1
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