He admits to adore me but ignore me and self control

[clairehud]

For the first time in my life this guy managed to do what no one else has before. Actually to completely swept me off my feet and making me feel like a some wacko on moments. When those moments happen I can't eat, I can't sleep, my mind is completely asking so many questions to the point where I just snap and decide to just send a simple text (not everyday), mostly something witty or just share some big things that happened to me, like how I passed my exam. Or I just want an attention posting stupid facebook statuses (lyrics, songs, showing off like I am having so much fun in my life, party...) which he can read. I think I can't control myself and that I am attention whore.

Have you ever felt this way or am I a complete mental case?

 

This wouldn't be akward if this was real relationship, if he lived in the radious of 500km and if I was sure what he wants. I explained to him my feelings in a nice cool and relaxed way two times so far. Totally calmed with dignity. I even told him indirectly that the option to leave me alone and not talking to me again would be totally okay. BUT the problem is that this dude just won't go away. Everytime I want to leave him out, he just keeps coming back telling me I'm wrong and how much he adores me.

He says he adores me but he ignores me! I am sick of being mostly the one who initiates comunication, but I can't control myself

 

Yes and I can go out with my friends, I can go and study stuck in a libary for hours, I could go of to a dates if I've actually met someone interesting meanwhile I didnt....I can get busy so much to get it all off my mind, but its not working. You can't be busy all the time not to think at all, day has 24 hours.

Have you ever felt like this and how can you handle it? I really feel like I have a rush hour when he comes to my mind and 10000 questions and thoughts start freaking me out, then I go and do something else, chill for a while. I am not saying I am thinking about him all the time, but when those 5 minutes come I went out freaking out then immediately calm down and think like Jesus Christ you didn't talk to him for only 3 days, calm down. Am I insane? :laugh:

I am just wondering how people respond to these love games people play and what is the best way to handle it?

My second question is how to move on with your life when this guy just won't let me go! He always keeps coming back. Giving him his space is testing my self control to the limits and beyond limits, because I never had it

I could move on and tell him to go away, but he just won't let me go, you know. And he is the only one that can make me fall for him so easily and make me high that I forget it all before and just smile.

Edited December 17, 2012 by clairehud

[charlietheginger]

Your in love....

 

Being in love makes a person

Happy

Sad

Joyful

Jealous

Controlling

Angry

Confused

Excited.....

 

all in a single day......

 

Its called the rollercoaster effect.....

 

Imo enjoy the feelings dont overthink or worry

Or read to much into love it will only drive you

Crazy.....

 

Just enjoy the ups downs flips zigs and zag

The rollercoaster of love has....

 

The rollercoaster will stop in a few months....

[clairehud]

Your in love....

 

Being in love makes a person

Happy

Sad

Joyful

Jealous

Controlling

Angry

Confused

Excited.....

 

all in a single day......

 

Its called the rollercoaster effect.....

 

Imo enjoy the feelings dont overthink or worry

Or read to much into love it will only drive you

Crazy.....

 

Just enjoy the ups downs flips zigs and zag

The rollercoaster of love has....

 

The rollercoaster will stop in a few months....

 

This is the best reply I've got on this entire forum Thank you, somehow this calmed me down. Yes, its normal and its life and I started to enjoy it