Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 You are such a true friend to betrayed spouses everywhere! I think the problem is- your wife doesn't care what you do, and increasingly, it appears neither does her husband. This dynamic is getting clearer and clearer. And I think it is clearer and clearer that you are angry and are spouting off about something you have no clue about. You are deflecting.
Decorative Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Usually someone doesn't hire a PI is they aren't interested. Good point. I would safely assume her spouse knows and does not care one whit. He's the one probably hiding his time to stay with his kids in his house. You two are too busy congratulating yourselves on your mutual cleverness to notice the people around you. 1
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 The husband hired a PI? Or the wife who doesn't care what you do after she found out? Her H hired the PI. She didn't find out about it until the opened a restaurant and he wanted her to do the bookkeeping. She then had access to accounts she never did in the past and found out he had hired a PI three times. She contacted the PI asking what it was for.
Decorative Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 And I think it is clearer and clearer that you are angry and are spouting off about something you have no clue about. You are deflecting. Deflecting what? To quote Inigo Montoya? I do not think that word means what you think it means. Why would I be angry at you? I don't know you. I don't keep company with narcissists, so the super spy act you are pulling means nothing to me. It just shows me more about your lack of character. Which does not personally anger me, because thankfully- you're not in my life. You sure need a lot of people to react to you, and you project on them. I know your wife doesn't give a crap about you, but we're strangers on an Internet forum. I certainly don't care enough about you to muster any emotion. 6
Decorative Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Biding his time, not hiding. Autocorrect. LOL
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Your life must really be boring, if you have to play this espionage game just to have lunch with the OW. For all you know she's giving you a bunch of lies about her husband's jealousy and the three PI investigations, gps tracking and all that, just to feed your ego. I've done plenty of volunteering at my children's schools, and if you think your OW can waltz through the front door and then out the back door to your car in the back, and no one in the school notices this, you must be very naive. :laugh::laugh: I waltz in and out of that school all day long, so do a lot of people. An hour here and an hour there multiple times a week and you are just part of the shuffle.
Furious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Her H hired the PI. She didn't find out about it until the opened a restaurant and he wanted her to do the bookkeeping. She then had access to accounts she never did in the past and found out he had hired a PI three times. She contacted the PI asking what it was for. Must be the dumb and dumber PI Agency. If you believe that, I want to sell you my real imitation diamonds for ONE MILLION DOLLARS...(evil laugh included) 2
Decorative Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Must be the dumb and dumber PI Agency. If you believe that, I want to sell you my real imitation diamonds for ONE MILLION DOLLARS...(evil laugh included) Right? Worst PI ever ! I bet it's that detective character Daffy Duck would play sometimes! LOL! 2
Furious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 :laugh::laugh: I waltz in and out of that school all day long, so do a lot of people. An hour here and an hour there multiple times a week and you are just part of the shuffle. Thanks for the laughs....don't tell me you actually think no one see's OW get into your car....but then again she probably changes into a wig and dark sunglasses in the kiddies bathroom before slipping out the back door:laugh::laugh::laugh:: 2
96nole Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Her H hired the PI. She didn't find out about it until the opened a restaurant and he wanted her to do the bookkeeping. She then had access to accounts she never did in the past and found out he had hired a PI three times. She contacted the PI asking what it was for. What did they tell her?
Furious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 What did they tell her? They must of have said, "your husband has hired us on three occasions to follow you":D:D:D:D:D:D 3
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 What did they tell her? She and her H are friends with the PI in question. She saw the billing and called him. Perhaps unethically he let her know he was taling her.
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Thanks for the laughs....don't tell me you actually think no one see's OW get into your car....but then again she probably changes into a wig and dark sunglasses in the kiddies bathroom before slipping out the back door:laugh::laugh::laugh:: They don't becauset he parking lots in front and rear are not visibile to the school. The one in the back is detached from the school. It sure is funny to watch all of you come up with scenarios that you think fits your perspective.
Furious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 She and her H are friends with the PI in question. She saw the billing and called him. Perhaps unethically he let her know he was taling her. Are you still interested in buying my real imitation diamonds:D:D:D 1
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 This nut job OW craves excitement and adventure (probably reads too many books) and clueless and unsuspecting Realist3 jumps through hoops making it a reality for her! :laugh: Now I'm convinced she made the whole thing up. No discovery, no phone call. This is too funny. I'm not sure what your response has to do with the original question. You and a few other sure do love to speculate yoursleves into pretzels for your own amusement.
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Are you still interested in buying my real imitation diamonds:D:D:D Are you still bitter?
Furious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 They don't becauset he parking lots in front and rear are not visibile to the school. The one in the back is detached from the school. It sure is funny to watch all of you come up with scenarios that you think fits your perspective. In my children's schools there are surveillance cameras inside and outside the school. The screens are on at all times in the front office. I bet the staff gets a kick out of you and your OW's antics. :D:D 2
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 In my children's schools there are surveillance cameras inside and outside the school. The screens are on at all times in the front office. I bet the staff gets a kick out of you and your OW's antics. :D:D Again the parking lots are detached. Yes the school lots in front and the rear are visible. These are not part of school property. One is a fire station and the other is a church.
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Did Alice ever answer the original question? 1
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 I want to think you both for thread jacking. 1
Decorative Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Are you still bitter? If bitter means not won over by an obviously bullhockey story, then yes, yes, we're all bitter. LOL 6
Decorative Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 I want to think you both for thread jacking. We're discussing methods of being caught, not caught, and the tendency of people to create drama around the idea of getting caught or not caught. Not a thread jack. You're the person who brought in unbelievable factors. We respond. No jacking necessary.
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 I didn't read back Dec, did you answer the question? I know Alice was in peanut gallery mode. 1
Author Realist3 Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Whether you can come to grips with it or not that is our story, the hoops we jump through. All of it real. The point again was that the methods you might think will work are easily defeated.
Spark1111 Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Her H hired the PI. She didn't find out about it until the opened a restaurant and he wanted her to do the bookkeeping. She then had access to accounts she never did in the past and found out he had hired a PI three times. She contacted the PI asking what it was for. I find this very hard to believe as PIs work and remain confidential to the person who has hired them if they wish to build their business and retain customers. That is some lousy PI, if her story is true. maybe she gets off on all this cloak and dagger stuff. realist, I'd be careful here. You do NOT want to have an affair with a woman rebelling against her mean daddy, oops, husband. Three years? And no move to divorce? how bad could he be? 5
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