Confusedbreakup Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 (edited) Hello-- I woke this morning with a strange feeling inside of me, and as I showered I started to think even deeper into what going on inside of me. I have a bf of over 2 years. And lately I've been feeling a little insecure about our relationship.. We've had our ups and downs as in most relationship, and lately I've noticed that we've both been trying our best to make things better. The issue--My current boyfriend has a preference of Hispanic women, particularly puerto rican woman, he says he likes their looks, ie color of skin, long hair etc. I however am black/hispanic, attractive, and slender... I am however, brown skin and dont resemble his ideal loook what so ever.. I often see him staring at these types in the street, and would sometimes see him reference them in messages to friends. He's never been with a puerto rican woman before in a relationship or dating.. He's white by the way. I saw some things written to a friend about going to clubs that at 80% hispanic. He is young and immature, so I'm not sure if this plays a role. My question is should I continue this relationship feeling like a second best or am I over thinking this? Please help me with some clarity. I'm worried that we'll continue on with him just going through the motions and will eventually find someone more his type that likes him as well. I don't know if I should keep it going or try to cool my feelings down. Thanks. Edited December 17, 2012 by Confusedbreakup
Treasa Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Sweetheart, drop him and find a man who adores the hell out of YOU.
Ami1uwant Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 A guy cant window shop? most guys accept this but women have problems.... men like to look and they realize they have no shot with such a hot woman. They also know there is alot more than just looks when it comes to a relationship. Actualy if he was planning on cheating on you he would display such behavior of looking at other women in front of you.
Badsingularity Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 My wife drools over certain guys in movies. They are usually 6' 3" and look like statues. I am 5' 9' and too fat at the moment. Yet I know she still loves me and wants me. People are not always going to fall in love with their physical ideal and when someone loves you they love YOU. You can not control what he does so it is probably best to not let yourself become too concerned about it. Also, men will always take quick looks at women they find attractive. It does not mean that they don't love the woman they are with.
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