Zammo25 Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Why ? as we have big hearts. We hurt so much as we are wonderful people who care. We are not like the knuckledraggers and bitches who would never imagine putting " broken heart " into a search engine. We are here as we did and that says everything about us. So move on , be strong, make a better life for yourself. If, in anyway you are bitter or disillusioned let me tell you the ultimate pay back is to make a fantastic life for yourself without them, they will see it, in time. Not that it will matter as you will not be bothered anymore. But most of all, do it for you. When you are healed you will be batting them off with a stick, believe me. When you are down and in a " pity party " no one will give a Rat's Arse for you, that is a FACT. So GO FOR IT, don't let someone who did not see how wonderful you are dictate your life or your future. It is their loss and you will be the winner. I can guarantee this. 10
portableversion Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 sweet, ive heard something similar to this before. is it really a pity party though? Having a shattered heart just hurts. my ex accused me of throwing a pity party for myself, i almost threw her out of my apartment for such statements. I said this pain is just a reflection of how much i love u and miss u. its proof of the strong feelings in me. if somoone cuts their finger or gets a paper cut on their tongue its gonna hurt till its healed. i dont think its a pity party at all. Its just being a broken busted individual, who needs to heal and thank god it comes. Having a shattered heart is worse than when i broke my leg in 3 places, that hurt for a long time and i was on a crutch for awhile. i didnt feel sorry for myself i was simply in pain and could not walk for awhile. i think this is similar 1
worldgonewrong Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 When you are healed you will be batting them off with a stick, believe me. I don't know if I agree with this part, as ego can prevent them from ever acknowledging your new status. But everything else? RIGHT ON.
poisondivide Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 i agree completely. it can be very hard to pick up the pieces of yourself, but eventually, they will fit back together. you will smile again, you will laugh, you'll think that person walking down the street is cute. being sad and hurt is expected and only human, but it's up to you to take the first step and make yourself whole again when you're ready.
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