EasyHeart Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 The first time I have sex with someone, he gets what he gives. What if he gives you a pork chop? 2
Under The Radar Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 a guy not LOVING to eat puwssy is a puwssy. I cant stand it if I cant taste and smell my GF for even a day. its like medicine for me. As one fellow Jew to another I have to ask: Is your girlfriend's "Puwssy" kosher ?
SmileFace Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 He did use her. There is no such this as being used when having consensual sex. However I think it may be a deal breaker - for the mere fact that she is not ok with it.
dasein Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 What if he gives you a pork chop? I think the other term for that is "donkey punch."
Under The Radar Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 BTW, I agree with the other posters that the OP would be best served dropping this dude. To accept oral sex from you without returning the favor is selfish. His actions (or lack of in this case) violates the "Law Of Reciprocation" on every level. It sets the tone and hints of future thoughtlessness on his part ... think about that (and this is coming from a guy) .
EasyHeart Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I think the other term for that is "donkey punch."I was just glad to hear that veggirl will eat some meat every now and then. Though it sounds like she'll only date vagetarians. . . . 1
dasein Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 I was just glad to hear that veggirl will eat some meat every now and then. Though it sounds like she'll only date vagetarians. . . . Agree. Am just happy that veggirl exists somewhere out there in the world, giving men hope of finding more like her. If she only eats one kind of meat that's fine! 1
veggirl Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 What if he gives you a pork chop? LOL well I would be like and then maybe for good measure I could yell something like "don't you know me at all! I hate you!" I was just glad to hear that veggirl will eat some meat every now and then. Though it sounds like she'll only date vagetarians. . . . hahahahahha! Yes being a vagetarian is a requirement!!
dasein Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 BTW veg, your new avatar looks like a penis that has just been told the thread title, and curled into a "Whaaa?" question mark as a result. Yes, dirty mind, I know. Sorry. 1
EasyHeart Posted December 18, 2012 Posted December 18, 2012 That's nothing! Mr. Castle's avi turned me gay! http://www.loveshack.org/forums/off-topic/water-cooler/362772-why-do-men-have-pictures-women-their-avis I guess I'll find out for myself if men "return the favor". 2
Author blue_jay_bird Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 (edited) maybe i'm old-fashioned or respect myself more than the average woman but after 3 dates? giving a bj and/or having sex? it's just crazy. it takes months (often years) to truly know someone and to just give up your body like that? maybe not slutty or trampy, but certainly doesn't show respect for yourself or the process of getting to know someone. had you waited longer you would have probably seen his more selfish personality or traits emerge - no one to blame but yourself Well it's nice to see you somewhat took back that im a tramp. Btw, saying like stuff can really hurt someone's feelings. And in no way make a girl feel she doesn't need acceptance from men, or other "relationship." Weather they are long term, or brief sexual accouters. Blame is not a good word to use for this situation. Negative and defeating statements are often more harmful then good. Maybe try statement of ask why I desire to give oral sex so soon. Or stating that someone aka me, doesn't have to engage in these acts so soon, because im young, intelligent and worth. Food for thought. Edited December 19, 2012 by blue_jay_bird
mitchell Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Did you swallow? Maybe he was offended if you spit it out?? It's just strange that this guy wouldn't take care of you.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted December 19, 2012 Author Posted December 19, 2012 Did you swallow? Maybe he was offended if you spit it out?? It's just strange that this guy wouldn't take care of you. I always thought this was a funny question. I mean for girls that do spit. Where would you spit to. Do you have a cup. You still get the taste. And why do you feel it's different. Seems like a very messy idea. Sorry for sounding graphic. 1
mitchell Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 I always thought this was a funny question. I mean for girls that do spit. Where would you spit to. Do you have a cup. You still get the taste. And why do you feel it's different. Seems like a very messy idea. Sorry for sounding graphic. Well, I'm grasping at straws trying to figure out why your BF would not reciprocate. Yes, some women prefer to spit and not swallow. They keep tissues or a washcloth handy. Many do oral and then just manually stimulate to orgasm to keep it out of their mouth entirely. I was wondering if you spit and did not swallow if he felt this was some sort of rejection of him.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Well it's nice to see you somewhat took back that im a tramp. Btw, saying like stuff can really hurt someone's feelings. And in no way make a girl feel she doesn't need acceptance from men, or other "relationship." Weather they are long term, or brief sexual accouters. Blame is not a good word to use for this situation. Negative and defeating statements are often more harmful then good. Maybe try statement of ask why I desire to give oral sex so soon. Or stating that someone aka me, doesn't have to engage in these acts so soon, because im young, intelligent and worth. Food for thought. So what have you learned from all of this? You seem to forget your actions define you, and if someone is going to chastise you for your actions, you can't really blame them.
veggirl Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Well, I'm grasping at straws trying to figure out why your BF would not reciprocate. Yes, some women prefer to spit and not swallow. They keep tissues or a washcloth handy. Many do oral and then just manually stimulate to orgasm to keep it out of their mouth entirely. I was wondering if you spit and did not swallow if he felt this was some sort of rejection of him. Did you read the post? He's not her BF, he said he only gives oral when he is in a relationship. Of course he waited til after she blew him to tell her this, but regardless. and LOL at a guy who thinks a girl who doesn't swallow is rejecting him. God. Some men really are big overgrown babies!!!! (though I agree its weird to give head and not swallow)
mitchell Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 Did you read the post? He's not her BF, he said he only gives oral when he is in a relationship. Of course he waited til after she blew him to tell her this, but regardless. and LOL at a guy who thinks a girl who doesn't swallow is rejecting him. God. Some men really are big overgrown babies!!!! (though I agree its weird to give head and not swallow) Hey, I did say I was grasping at straws!
rocketman122 Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 As one fellow Jew to another I have to ask: Is your girlfriend's "Puwssy" kosher ? HAHA good one! kosher or not, I dont care, just bring that hairy slit here.
EasyHeart Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 (though I agree its weird to give head and not swallow)Well, now we know that veggirl isn't vegan. . ..
yongyong Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 You don't ask like that. you gave him a BJ to please him. It's like a man giving a gift to women or help with her moving, watch her dog etc to please her. Say, he felt like he was used and he brings it up to her. What T F would she say 'oh did I force you to do that?' Well i asked him about it. Via text. And he was like, "well, i didn't force you or anything." Pretty defensive. I don't really want to see him again, even though i really liked him. He has a point. But...seem's like something is off. 1
Ami1uwant Posted December 19, 2012 Posted December 19, 2012 So I was on a third date with this man, and i ended up going down on him. I asked for a return of the favor and he said he only goes down on girls he's in a relationship with. I don't know what to think of this. I feel kind of cheep, and well worried that this guy sleeps around. And i feel silly.. i don't know what to think but, is giving a bj, dangerous, concerning std's? I feel stupid. his way of saying it was poor....but he does have a point. He wants to make sure its not sloppy seconds...
Tara247 Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 You don't ask like that. you gave him a BJ to please him. It's like a man giving a gift to women or help with her moving, watch her dog etc to please her. Say, he felt like he was used and he brings it up to her. What T F would she say 'oh did I force you to do that?' Just another example of why giving sex including oral sex this early with someone isn't a good idea. Before he had sex with her, I think he could have told her that he receives oral sex outside of a relationship but doesn't give it, but of course, he was only concerned for his own pleasure. He doesn't care about her. This man is a selfish jerk, there's just no two ways about that. OP, you are crazy if you have anything more to do with this man.
mesmerized Posted December 20, 2012 Posted December 20, 2012 I never go down on a guy until he goes down on me first. I recommend taking this approach in the future. And all the people bashing the OP for this need to have a little sympathy. I'm sure you've done a stupid thing or two in your life. I knew I liked you for a reason. A guy that doesn't like go down on me doesn't get a bj or sex. I love this rule of mine and works for me perfectly. Be smart girl, get yours. 1
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