ArjunIsAmazing Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 (edited) Hey everyone, On Wednesday, I asked this girl that I've liked for a while to hang out some time, and she said yes. However, because we're going to be doing different things through winter break, we decided to wait until before, which is when I come back to university. Now here's the backstory: This girl lives in my hall on residence, and we have basically the exact same group of friends. We hang out in our circle of friends for around 4-5 hours a day at least, watch movies in groups, go get food together, etc. I've known her since September, and only just asked her out. She's pretty innocent (farthest she got was kissing), and thus slightly awkward relationship-wise. I went into her room on Wednesday night, told her I really liked her and that I'd like to hang out with her sometime, and she said yes. So here's the problem: We haven't really had much time to ourselves after that night, because she's been busy with exams and we've just been with different groups of people until she left (she left on Sunday afternoon). However, I feel like something feels different when I've spoken to her since then, and it makes me slightly uncomfortable. Another thing that makes me slightly uncomfortable is that she is slightly flirty with one of my friends (she'll slap his ass sometimes) but that hasn't been much of a big deal because my friend is seeing another girl. Just thought I'd mention this though. I posted this because ever since I asked her out, I've been feeling slightly uneasy about this. I still like her a lot and for some reason I feel like she might not, even though she agreed to go out with me. Edited December 1, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Radu Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 So here's the problem: We haven't really had much time to ourselves after that night, because she's been busy with exams and we've just been with different groups of people until she left (she left on Sunday afternoon). However, I feel like something feels different when I've spoken to her since then, and it makes me slightly uncomfortable. You need to internalize the ideea that she is one of many fishes in the sea. That way you will get outcome independent, and generally in relationships ... the one who cares the least has the upper hand and is more attractive generally. Another thing that makes me slightly uncomfortable is that she is slightly flirty with one of my friends (she'll slap his ass sometimes) but that hasn't been much of a big deal because my friend is seeing another girl. Just thought I'd mention this though. Does that happen when your friend's girlfriend is in the room ? Because i bet it doesn't. She has a crush on that guy. I posted this because ever since I asked her out, I've been feeling slightly uneasy about this. I still like her a lot and for some reason I feel like she might not, even though she agreed to go out with me. Read again what i wrote about being outcome independent and look it up on google as well. That's the key.
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