sghffdmc Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 I don't know that I'm so much looking for answers from this post, but rather I think I just need to speak my mind...everything is so heavy right now an it's all weighing me down. It's been nearly 3 months since my ex dumped me. For a while, I was doing great. But suddenly, I'm right back to square one, hurting almost just as bad as the initial break up. I'm missing her more than ever. I'm surrounded by relationships with all of my friends and I'm extremely lonely. I can't get her off my mind, no matter how hard I try. I think part of it is because the break up wasn't bad and we're on good terms. We of course don't speak as much as we used to, but when we do, our conversations seem to pick up right where they left off. And to make matters worse, I'm forced to see her on a daily basis because of our jobs. And when I see her, my feelings bubble up stronger than ever and I want nothing more than to just have her back. I'm sure a lot of people who were in love feel this way during break ups, but I honestly thought she was the one and I can't force that thought out of my head, no matter how hard I try. I have no interest in pursuing anyone else right now...instead I hope that we will one day work. And I hate that hope like that lives inside of me. But I'm having a hard time ignoring it. Sometimes I get frustrated, because when I look at her, I know I could do better than her physically and plenty of people tell me the same. In the public eye, she's probably the least attractive girl I've ever dated....but when I look at her, I see the most beautiful girl in the world...if that makes any sense. She was my best friend and I feel hopeless because at this point and time I'm finding it hard to believe I will ever find a connection that will feel even remotely similar to what I shared with her... Thanks for reading...and any words of wisdom are appreciated, of course.
Darren From England Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 For what it is worth I am going through exactly the same as you my friend I feel your pain, I share your sleepless nights, the knot in your stomach ETC but I have been completely cut out of her life and she has moved 5 hours away I was dumped by Text ( SMS ) and moaned at in the same text that she dumped me in, she then proceeded to change her mobile number, block me and all my family on Facebook over the next 5 weeks, and on top of this is at an address I don't even know, and she owes me £200.00 for a Mobile Phone, so I have the pain of she dumped me, and by Text, and no contact AT ALL, and no address, and the possibility she would steal from me You still have a chance as you are at least in contact with her to some degree my advice would be just remain professional about it all, or as professional as you can be, don't let anger or animosity creep in as it will poison your soul try to remember that many others are going through what you are going through you are not alone, I thought my EX was the 1, I am madly in love with her, She always claimed to love me but I don't know any more, if you fancy someone to chat to to get it of your chest I am here my friend. best wishes Darren
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