joel Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 met a girl at metrotown. i approached her and went direct. said she was cute and then got her number. 3 days later i call her and we chatted for 40 minutes. at the end i suggest we meet up for coffee. i ask her were is good. i suggest infront of london drugs on granville and she says parking is hard there and she suggest denman and robson. i say ok. her -- what we going do on the date. me- i say walk in park and have coffee. her- then says ah arent you gonna take me out to dinner me-ahhh sure where you want to eat her- japanese sushi and sashimi at that point im kind of wonderin and thinking oh great this girl has expectations and sashmi is expensive. first date i was thinking just lets go for coffee and walk in park . the day come on friday and i wait for her at 7 at denman and robson and shes late 40 minutes. she text me sayin traffic and 10 min and turned out 40 min late. i called her asking where are you at 7 25 and she gives me all this drama crap . my personal trainer quit on me, 2 ppl at work drop out their shift and i forgot my wallet. im thinking oh great. if we eat i gotta pay and this girl late too. i suggest we sit at starbucks and drink coffee or get a pizza but she still commands the japanese sashmi. lol she gets there and suggest this japanese restaurant. she already said she didnt bring her wallet so i have to pay. at that point we sit and go inside the restaurant and i say i gotta go in 10 min and my friend at that time calls and i pick up the phone and start talking to him. she gets off and walks out. i let her go what a manulipative girl . she aint getting no dime from this real pimp sarger lol
todreaminblue Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 met a girl at metrotown. i approached her and went direct. said she was cute and then got her number. 3 days later i call her and we chatted for 40 minutes. at the end i suggest we meet up for coffee. i ask her were is good. i suggest infront of london drugs on granville and she says parking is hard there and she suggest denman and robson. i say ok. her -- what we going do on the date. me- i say walk in park and have coffee. her- then says ah arent you gonna take me out to dinner me-ahhh sure where you want to eat her- japanese sushi and sashimi at that point im kind of wonderin and thinking oh great this girl has expectations and sashmi is expensive. first date i was thinking just lets go for coffee and walk in park . the day come on friday and i wait for her at 7 at denman and robson and shes late 40 minutes. she text me sayin traffic and 10 min and turned out 40 min late. i called her asking where are you at 7 25 and she gives me all this drama crap . my personal trainer quit on me, 2 ppl at work drop out their shift and i forgot my wallet. im thinking oh great. if we eat i gotta pay and this girl late too. i suggest we sit at starbucks and drink coffee or get a pizza but she still commands the japanese sashmi. lol she gets there and suggest this japanese restaurant. she already said she didnt bring her wallet so i have to pay. at that point we sit and go inside the restaurant and i say i gotta go in 10 min and my friend at that time calls and i pick up the phone and start talking to him. she gets off and walks out. i let her go what a manipulative girl . she aint getting no dime from this real pimp sarger lol hmmmmm......you say she was manipulative but yet you weren't truthful with what you really felt......and what you wanted to do ...if a guy said to me a walk in the park i would go yay but skip the coffee...if i were to say can we do this or that and he went yes sure...i would assume he didnt mind......when a guy suggests something though if you truly like them you want to do what they suggested remember that next time and be honest with what you dont want...may mean you have a happier dating experience.....dont do things you dont want to do ...uncomfortable for both....................deb
KraftDinner Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 This post is funny. I live in Vancouver too and it's funny you're posting as tho everyone knows what 'metro' is and stuff, haha. Guess that's what happens when you meet random chicks in malls and ask them out without knowing them and stuff. What's a pimp sarger? 2
todreaminblue Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 She wasn't really manipulative. She was pretty clear about everything. She is bitchy and immature. My type of woman. The main problem is you let her control everything. You let her change the plans you made and pick all the places and times SHE wanted. You didn't have a backbone. You let her run you over. New women you date will always try this crappola to help them figure out what kind of man they are dealing with. Will you be a pushover? Will you be a control freak? Will you flip out on her? This is why women do this stuff. You showed her you don't really respect yourself, so she doesn't respect you either. Sorry. That's the harsh truth. I eat women like her for breakfast so I know that game. smiling at you......while choking why are you on this board again remind me......if you are eating girls fro breakfast why are you wasting time shouldnt you be eating....go get those kittykats leisure...guy....they are purring and missing you...arent they?????...deb 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 :laugh: "Pimp sarger"? "Go direct"? I guess you were using your PUA tactics? I guess they backfired. Sounds like she was playing a game of her own, just like you were. I eat women like her for breakfast so I know that game. Oh, come on. We all know you eat Captain Crunch for breakfast. While you watch your cartoons. In your footie jammies. 1
yongyong Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 then says ah arent you gonna take me out to dinner At that point, you should've figured out she just wanted a free dinner. 3
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Try staying on topic and focusing on answering the OP's question. What was the question? Was there a question? You will never sleep with me. Lord knows you're right about that, at least!
Radu Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 OP, you should have walked out when she was over her 15min late. You should have walked out when she blew up on you over the phone, even though she was at fault. If you had done this, she would be contacting you right now. By not doing these things, you showed her that you do not respect yourself, and ppl do not respect ppl who do not respect themselves. And in the future, make alternate plans. By this i mean that if it's late/flake you should go in the park, theater, movies ... just don't make it feel like it's a waste of an evening. Don't let her ruin your evening. 2
coffeebean201 Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 If she's cute and you like her - I think you should give her another chance. It is too cold outside to go for a romantic walk. And pick a place that isn't so stressful for her re traffic. I don't know what to say about the sushi fixation.
ScreamingTrees Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Should've told her you're not willing to spend money on a total stranger, especially in an expensive setting. If she's looking for someone with a backbone, you'll be showing you have one, that you don't care if that bothers her because you're not going to be manipulated by a total stranger. Even if she thinks you're greedy, she probably only wanted sushi to begin with, that'd likely cloud her judgement of you refusing to be walked on. Tell her that if she wants to eat there that badly, that she'll have to pay for it herself. If she "loses her wallet" along the way or "forgets" it at home, she could just wash dishes or something because you only have just enough cash for yourself, unfortuntely..
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