sadbunnyy Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 The Vendetta Technique. STEP 1: Choose Your Enemy This is someone you are fighting against or with, such as the boyfriend who dumped you. You are not trying to destroy your enemy. Instead, you are rebuilding yourself and making yourself more powerful to be better than them." STEP 2: Choose Your Vendetta Statistics show people who write down their goals are 80 percent more likely to achieve them. Figure out your goal—such as looking and feeling better about yourself--and then write it down. STEP 3: Cleanup Metaphorically annihilate them! Erase the enemy and their friends from your life. Take them off your Facebook, out of your phone, and address book. STEP 4: Establish a Fanbase Tell ONLY your close friends and family about your Vendetta. They will be your support team. Get your girlfriends together and watch movies like GI Jane, Waiting to Exhale, Thelma and Louise, and The Women for empowerment and inspiration. STEP 5: The Vendetta Diet Ivana Trump once said 'looking good is the best revenge.' She's right. When you look and feel good, you have more confidence and are ready for action. Throw out junk food, fill the fridge with veggies, and start a new exercise routine like walking with friends for 15 minutes a day. STEP 6: It's Go Time "Set small goals for yourself and create a Vendetta Treasure Chest, which is a box containing promise notes for rewards when you reach results. These can be 'Get a Massage,' 'Buy a New outfit' or getting to wear a sexy red lipstick that you aren't allowing yourself to wear until you've reached your goal. When your Treasure Chest is empty, you have achieved your Vendetta! STEP 7: Vendetta Ceremony Now that you've accomplished your vendetta, celebrate by throwing a party for yourself or going on a trip. Or gather all of the ex's photos and memorabilia that you no longer want and get rid of it in a symbolic way. 1
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