wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 His many of you had your BS take one? My xMM BS said he took one and passed with "flying colors". My SO told her she must've not asked the right questions as some of the things she told my SO were asked he knew and had proof xMM was lying. Just curious...... I know lots of people recommend polygraphs to BS with unanswered questions.
Author wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Sorry. My SO was talking with my xMM BS. She told him (my SO) that xMM had taken a polygraph and had passed it. She went on to tell some of the questions that were asked and my SO had proof that id those were the questions, xMM had lied.
Author wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Oh now I remember. Your xMM's wife won't leave your SO alone and keeps texting him even though your SO told her not to, right? xMM didn't take a polygraph. The wife just wants to rub something in your face and wants to save face. I guess that makes sense. I was just curious about the polygraphs.
Author wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 The wife is lying. Don't you think it's time to block her now? You (and your SO) did all you can do. It's been a little bit since she's texted me. I don't know if she's recently texted my SO or not. he's not said anything to me and I've not asked.
Author wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 The wife is in a bad state and rightfully so. He threw you under the bus and is gas lighting her to high heaven. You did the right thing and told her the truth and sent her proof -- she is in denial and wants to believe you're lying and he's telling the truth. From the beginning she's been in denial. Don't worry about them anymore. Just be thankful he's out of your life. Thanks. I am very thankful. 4 months ago I didn't know how I'd get by without him in my life. Today, I know I'm much better with him completely gone!!!! 1
todreaminblue Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 His many of you had your BS take one? My xMM BS said he took one and passed with "flying colors". My SO told her she must've not asked the right questions as some of the things she told my SO were asked he knew and had proof xMM was lying. Just curious...... I know lots of people recommend polygraphs to BS with unanswered questions. good liars can beat polygraph tests it also can be affected by the elvels of stress the person is under......if you take the restign pulse fo soemoen who is comfortabel adn relaxed....and then take the pulse of the same person who has just told a lie it will be higher... this going to sound sad but if you want a true result......be lyign in bed with your so.......ask him a question talk for a while......lie your ear on his heart listen tot rythym fo hsi heart beats.....then when you feel the beat is slow and steady ask him what you want........to me....you shouldnt do this .....you should be able to trust them..its manipulation......you need to make the question appear light hearted......so you can get your answer......im tired of reading liars...hearing lies in inflections i would rather just trust someone...im over it...........deb
Author wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 I am to. I was struggling, and I can't lie, you probably got under Every nerve in my body (I'm 6' tall so I have ALOT of nerves :-) but I've never once regretted coming clean with all answers to all questions. 1
Author wanting more Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 It was tough to read most comments. Many times I thought I'd never look on this board again. But once I got over being pissed off at him, pissed off at his BS I realized I was really pissed off at myself for what I was involved in. It took me reading the responses slow and over and over that you were all telling me what I already knew. 2
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