ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 I think this guy who coaches my cousin is hot. I see him at games but there is no way he could even talk to me if he wanted to bc he is working. plus even if he wanted to it would be awkward bc he would have to come talk to me when im sitting in the stands with other people. also, i cannot have my cousin say something to him because my cousin just wont do it. however, i have his email address (thanks to google) so do you think its weird, too forward, or desperate looking if i email him?? also, if i email him, what should i say??
sweetkiwi Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Yes weird. Hang out after a game and ask, in person, If he wants to get coffee/a drink/food. In my experience men like direct approaches. At least the ones i like. 1
speedstreak Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Men rarely get creeped out by a woman asking him such a thing. If he does, then he is pathetic.
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 ok great. so what do you think i should say then?
CptObvious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 If you're hot then you shouldn't have a problem at all. 1
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 im hot but what if he has a girlfriend or thinks im weird
CptObvious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 im hot but what if he has a girlfriend or thinks im weird This can only end in 4 ways: 1. he doesn't have a gf and u get it 2. he has a gf but cheats anyway 3. he has a gf, but resists, until he can't resist anymore and u get it 4. he has a gf, and u don't get it. He's the one that missed out. He's the one who loses. I'm putting my money on outcome #2 Even if I had a wife.. if you invite me in there I'M GOING IN THERE. Nothing is gonna hold me back if you're hot enough. No pussy is better than new pussy.
sweetkiwi Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Oh man. Where do they produce this kind of slime? I have toejam with more morality. 1
CptObvious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Oh man. Where do they produce this kind of slime? I have toejam with more morality. babe that's just how guys operate.
sweetkiwi Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Correction. That's how YOU operate. And YOU claim its guys so you don't have to be responsible for your actions. "But my penis made me". "I am not in control of my choices, my hormones are". If you're nothing but an animal then lets chain you up somewhere so you don't hump strangers and bite the mail lady's ass. At least dogs are loyal. And trainable. Honestly i think you're funny. Im so glad i have never been with a guy like you. Oh wait i did. But he didn't cheat. He just was a fhuktard who finally met his match. 1
CptObvious Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 (edited) Correction. That's how YOU operate. And YOU claim its guys so you don't have to be responsible for your actions. "But my penis made me". "I am not in control of my choices, my hormones are". If you're nothing but an animal then lets chain you up somewhere so you don't hump strangers and bite the mail lady's ass. At least dogs are loyal. And trainable. Honestly i think you're funny. Im so glad i have never been with a guy like you. Oh wait i did. But he didn't cheat. He just was a fhuktard who finally met his match. babe we are everywhere. You'll date one of us eventually(you might have already and you don't even know it). If a girl is hot enough and she works the right angle then she can crack any guy even if he's married or "in love" with someone else. You don't know how much it kills us inside when we're forced to turn down freebies. You wouldn't understand that type of pain. btw that "fhuktard" got it in real good. I bet he had a lot of winning moments. Edited December 17, 2012 by CptObvious
Bito Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 babe we are everywhere. You'll date one of us eventually(you might have already and you don't even know it). If a girl is hot enough and she works the right angle then she can crack any guy even if he's married or "in love" with someone else. You don't know how much it kills us inside when we're forced to turn down freebies. You wouldn't understand that type of pain. btw that "fhuktard" got it in real good. I bet he had a lot of winning moments. Troll much? To the op if he turns you down why should it matter?
sweetkiwi Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Haha because i never turn down sex........i am just a master of my sexual organs and desires. I use my sexual energy on my man. You may be everywhere. And more numerous in this particular country, but no matter how many times you cheat or lie or deceive i will come out on top darling. Because i have the power to actually love. And to be in control of my actions. Wanna get pussy alllll the time? Be in an open relationship. **** the right girl will even hook them for both of you to play with. That's a keeper. But don't cheat on good women and make them hate the male species in its entirety. That's taking pussy out of your brothers mouth.
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 well i dont want to just **** him, i would like to date him. so does that change anything? 1
sweetkiwi Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 No. Go up to him and talk to him. Get his number or make it a date right then and there. I've been doing this for years girl. I always get my man. Most guys are so shocked that they don't say much at first. Don't let it phase you. Get that number. Make the date.
mesmerized Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 No. Go up to him and talk to him. Get his number or make it a date right then and there. I've been doing this for years girl. I always get my man. Most guys are so shocked that they don't say much at first. Don't let it phase you. Get that number. Make the date. I have never done this. TEACH ME! lol 1
sweetkiwi Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Believe me girls. I was such a painfully shy nerd in highschool you'd never believe it. But i discovered my sexuality and humor. That broke me out of my shell. You just be yourself but confidant and guys respond. I talk to a lot of people. And since guys are usually intimidated by me it can only get better from there. I make them laugh. Ask questions. Then If i actually like them i simply ask for their number. Its so easy.
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 yea but if i do not get a chance to talk to him im still curious how many men would find it creepy or desperate looking to receive an email from a girl who sees him while hes working?
mesmerized Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 babe we are everywhere. You'll date one of us eventually(you might have already and you don't even know it). If a girl is hot enough and she works the right angle then she can crack any guy even if he's married or "in love" with someone else. You don't know how much it kills us inside when we're forced to turn down freebies. You wouldn't understand that type of pain. btw that "fhuktard" got it in real good. I bet he had a lot of winning moments. Iet me guess, you are not attractive, are you?
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 i am attractive, otherwise i wouldnt email at all. i have seen him check me out, but that doesnt mean he is single and wont find it weird if i email him.
mesmerized Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 yea but if i do not get a chance to talk to him im still curious how many men would find it creepy or desperate looking to receive an email from a girl who sees him while hes working? Its creepy, talk to him in person.
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 so does that mean you agree with cptobvious, that if im hot it doesnt matter?
mesmerized Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 i am attractive, otherwise i wouldnt email at all. i have seen him check me out, but that doesnt mean he is single and wont find it weird if i email him. That was for captobvious not you hon.
Author ginastar Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 oh ok. so are you a male? what do you think i should do. its extremely hard to talk to him since hes working. i would look like a stalker either way i feel llike because i would have to sit around way after the thing is over to get to him
Author ginastar Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 any other opinions on if emailing will be a turn off to a guy or make me seem easy?
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