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met a girl online and we texted for a week, and then we then met and had a real good time.we didnt make out or do anything sexual, we just talked and hung out and I gave her a big hug when we went our ways. We continued texting and planned our mext meeting and she would text me while i was working saying "i miss you" or" please get off work!"...she also said i make her smile and that I was a sweet guy and couldnt wait to see me again.It looked like we were gonna be dating. we had planned on meeting twice the next week

 

Well I found out she met another guy and was interested in him. She was saying she had no idea what to do because she felt horrible about the situation.

 

well last night she let me know that she was gonna see the other guy. she said they just had a better chemisty than her and i. she said we had a good chemistry but just not as good, and that it was easier for her to see him(he lives in the same town, i'm 20 mins apart) and age was a big factor (shes 20 hes 22 and im 24)

 

she said it was not an easy choice and felt bad

 

i say alright well no hard feelings

 

 

well they dated 3 days then broke up

 

sooooooooooooooooo how can i approach her now?

 

i really do like her alot and i wanna date her

 

how do i approach he rnow?

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I don't get the part where she told you last night she was going to see the other guy and they ended up dating 3 days.

 

How did you find out they broke up and do you know why they did?

Were you guys still in contact while she was dating this other guy?

 

From what you wrote I'd say let her come to you. You don't want to seem desperate and happy to be her second choice.

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I don't get the part where she told you last night she was going to see the other guy and they ended up dating 3 days.

 

How did you find out they broke up and do you know why they did?

Were you guys still in contact while she was dating this other guy?

 

From what you wrote I'd say let her come to you. You don't want to seem desperate and happy to be her second choice.

 

 

it was on her status

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Look she is dead to you know. she dumped you to switch to another guy.

 

Forget about the relationship.

 

But I say there could be a chance for a bang.

I say just casually ask her what she is doing and invite her to your house or to the bar.

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