yessy21 Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 How do you know if the person you are sharing your life with honestly loves you? What if they stop calling you when Ur not together or they don't text u sweet stuff anymore.... Or what if they dont really care what u have to say? What if you feel unloved in the relationship? Is it you? Is it them?
LoveMyWifey Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 It is a tough question to answer, how long have you been together?
seren Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 How do you know if the person you are sharing your life with honestly loves you? What if they stop calling you when Ur not together or they don't text u sweet stuff anymore.... Or what if they dont really care what u have to say? What if you feel unloved in the relationship? Is it you? Is it them? Yessy, how long have you been together and are you living together? In the early days (before text messaging, I am old ) we sent each other love letters all the time, he sent flowers far more often than he does now. The heightened feelings have to slow down over time or they would be exhausting and commonplace. If you feel unloved or that you aren't listened to, that is something else entirely and if it were me, I would ask, using the 'we' word rather than making it all about what they don't do anymore. Possibly saying 'we don't seem to be as close' or 'when we are talking I feel that we don't really listen to each other'. Along those lines, it makes it less liable to end up in an argument. What have you tried?
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