caseinpoint Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 When I find out that my crushes or exes are seeing women of a particular race or ethnicity, I tend to dislike that race or ethnicity. I am not a racist by nature. But it's by association. Probably jealousy. But is this normal? Anyone else felt this way too?
Carenth Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Um you might need to clarify more, do you dislike the person because of some sort of "feeling" they stole your crush or ex. Or you actually dislike anyone from that race...
Author caseinpoint Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 Um you might need to clarify more, do you dislike the person because of some sort of "feeling" they stole your crush or ex. Or you actually dislike anyone from that race... Anyone from that race. It's more of not wanting to see them because they remind me of the person that stole my crush or ex. Normal or not?
naviis Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 You mean like... You had a crush on a guy who ended up dating a Japanese chick instead of you, so you hate all Japanese people? Or is just the women?
Author caseinpoint Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 You mean like... You had a crush on a guy who ended up dating a Japanese chick instead of you, so you hate all Japanese people? Or is just the women? No, just the women. I don't want to see them because I don't want to be reminded of the chick.
naviis Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 No, just the women. I don't want to see them because I don't want to be reminded of the chick. Does that work with girls of the same ethnicity as you?
Author caseinpoint Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 Does that work with girls of the same ethnicity as you? Less. But when I see a couple that reminds me of them (not ethnicity in this case, but looks) then I want to run away. I think if it's some girl of a different ethnicity than me, I find that they have something that I don't that they got my crush or ex. If it's someone of the same ethnicity as me, I can't say as much.
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