Communication?

[Mysteryhopeful]

Apologies for the long mail.

 

ok I was previously seeing a girl who has a bf. she was living with him and had told me of times he has cheated on her in the past etc. told me she really likes me and there is zero future with her bf. intention was to move out and once she finished exams to break up. Well she has moved out and has finished her exams. But I overhear she has two holidays booked with him now. I confront her. She doesn't deny it. I flip. Hardly something someone who intends to break up does. I say right everything is off. If you break up and if I'm still single give me a bell and we will see. She was like whats the problem? She didn't see what it changed. She hopes to stay good friends with this guy. We meet up and discuss everything during which she says she is going to break up with him this wk an let me know how things go. Well there has been no word all wk. and I haven't asked. And there have been a few odd incidents with her during the wk. so it's effectively a stand off. I'm not initiating anything and she ain't saying anything either. And we both also work together.

 

I'm not sure how to play this now. Continue as is ie no communication, let her initiate and forget her if nothing or play everything cool, be like how is your weekend etc and pretend there is no big deal. The second option will be more difficult as I will need to acting really and the elephant in the room will be being ignored assuming I don't raise it.

 

Any thoughts?

[Darren Steez]

She's cheating on her boyfriend, is going on two holidays with him? Two holidays? Really? lol And also wants to remain friends? Absolutely nothing wrong with this picture...proceed and hope you two have a good future together.

[nofool4u]

Any thoughts?

 

Yes.

 

You should have known she couldn't be trusted when you were helping her cheat behind her bf's back.

 

She can cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. You should have known better.