ringo Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Ok... you husband or wife is having an affair. What's worse - if the affair is with someone of the same sex - or of the opposite sex? I was just curious about this since hearing about the married NJ Governor that resigned for having a gay affair..... ???
cinnamonstix49 Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 An affair is an affair... somehow I think I could handle it better if it was same sex though
dyermaker Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 : Unless it was because she's actually gay and has no interest in me, I'd rather it be with a woman. I'd be curious to know what a gay person would feel about their committed partner sleeping with a member of the opposite sex.
reasontosigh Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Originally posted by cinnamonstix49 An affair is an affair... somehow I think I could handle it better if it was same sex though Ditto. As much as affairs blow chunks IMO, I could probably be a bit (the teensiest-weensiest bit, mind you) more understanding about it if it were the same sex. After all, as much as one might want to be everything (literally!? nope, not me!!! ) to the one they love, even if one underwent the physiogically (and financially) costly changes involved there's no guarantee of success.
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