GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Hi Everyone! Sooo I'm going to jump right into it. I was with my ex for 3 years we lived together for a year. We're both 22 and his current girlfriend is 31. We took a break September & still lived together (very awkward) Broke up November (he moved out). Recently he's started to txt me now keep in mind our break up was bad & confusing ... he cheated on me and is currently with that women (the 31 yr old) while he was living with me confusing me saying he loves me & what not i was not aware that he was with her while he was living with me when I found out I completely ended it & asked him to leave (My house). So what in the right mind made him think it is okay to text me ... worse not to ask how I am nor apologize but about his current girlfriend because i guess their having issues or whatever. I don't want to read into it to much because I'm quite prideful & refuse to be his safety net. So i told him straight out not to txt me anymore. Then he has the nerve to ask me if I told his current girlfriend that he texted which I didn't. He stopped texting me after i told him no then today he texted me again saying it was hard not to txt me & if I could go over to his place of course I refused (its a booty-call rite?) & i told him i had nothing else to say to him & he should really stop txting me then he asked me again if i had told his gf that he txted me. This dude is insane right? Any suggestions (I have blocked him from my phone, deleted all mutual friend online, avoided him) what else can I do?
veggirl Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Good for you girl! It's very nice to see that resolve and strength in someone that is as young as you are You should be proud of yourself for not accepting the BS he is now tossing your way. You should not reply to a single thing he says. He will try harder when you do that, but if you stay silent he will eventually give up. I'm sure he is currently regretting what he did, but bottomline is that he is a cheater and not worth what you can offer. If you've blocked him online and on your phone, he shouldn't be able to contact you again, short of showing up at your place in which case you just say "Go away or I will call the police". he will get the hint. I take it you just recently blocked him since you'd gotten these texts? Or was he texting from a diff number or something? Regardless, just stay SILENT.
Author GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 (edited) I take it you just recently blocked him since you'd gotten these texts? Or was he texting from a diff number or something? Regardless, just stay SILENT. He txted me from a different number. But if he txts me again I just won't respond like you said. I'm still going through the process of getting over him so it's tempting because I really loved him & it pisses me off you know. But I have to stay strong lol its just a bit hard ... because I'm having a hard time understanding it all ... Edited December 16, 2012 by GlendiexElsewhere
allenpo123 Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Good for you!! He really sounds like a jerk to me, it's so unfair to come back to an ex just because he's having troubles with the new one.. AND he even cheated on you with his current gf.... Stay strong!!!
Author GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 Good for you!! He really sounds like a jerk to me, it's so unfair to come back to an ex just because he's having troubles with the new one.. AND he even cheated on you with his current gf.... Stay strong!!! He really is ... but he was good at hiding it when we were together he was one of those smooth talkers ... It sucks having feelings for a jerk & its hard enough coping with what happen & moving on it feels like he's just torturing me now ... hopefully he gets the hint & wont show up at my house lol
Samilia Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Hi Everyone! Sooo I'm going to jump right into it. I was with my ex for 3 years we lived together for a year. We're both 22 and his current girlfriend is 31. We took a break September & still lived together (very awkward) Broke up November (he moved out). Recently he's started to txt me now keep in mind our break up was bad & confusing ... he cheated on me and is currently with that women (the 31 yr old) while he was living with me confusing me saying he loves me & what not i was not aware that he was with her while he was living with me when I found out I completely ended it & asked him to leave (My house). So what in the right mind made him think it is okay to text me ... worse not to ask how I am nor apologize but about his current girlfriend because i guess their having issues or whatever. I don't want to read into it to much because I'm quite prideful & refuse to be his safety net. So i told him straight out not to txt me anymore. Then he has the nerve to ask me if I told his current girlfriend that he texted which I didn't. He stopped texting me after i told him no then today he texted me again saying it was hard not to txt me & if I could go over to his place of course I refused (its a booty-call rite?) & i told him i had nothing else to say to him & he should really stop txting me then he asked me again if i had told his gf that he txted me. This dude is insane right? Any suggestions (I have blocked him from my phone, deleted all mutual friend online, avoided him) what else can I do? He's a cheater and his "new" gf, more experienced, caught up on that. She probably snuck into his phone or saw the red flags pilling up. Change your phone number. Make sure you give it to friends and family, doctors, etc... kick him out of your life for good.
Author GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 He's a cheater and his "new" gf, more experienced, caught up on that. She probably snuck into his phone or saw the red flags pilling up. Change your phone number. Make sure you give it to friends and family, doctors, etc... kick him out of your life for good. Yes you are right I've been thinking of changing my number because blocking him isn't exactly working but I've been holding off because of the job applications I've sent off lol but even if i change it ... I might actually have to move because my neighbor told me she's been seeing him around my house ... so its getting a bit stalkerish right? or am i reading to much into it?
Samilia Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 Yes you are right I've been thinking of changing my number because blocking him isn't exactly working but I've been holding off because of the job applications I've sent off lol but even if i change it ... I might actually have to move because my neighbor told me she's been seeing him around my house ... so its getting a bit stalkerish right? or am i reading to much into it? Thats where you call the cops. As for your job application, if they haven't called yet, they probably won't. You can also update your contact info online, most companies now have you fill their job app online.
Author GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 17, 2012 Author Posted December 17, 2012 Thats where you call the cops. As for your job application, if they haven't called yet, they probably won't. You can also update your contact info online, most companies now have you fill their job app online. Alright then I'll officially change my number tomorrow since you put it that way. lol I'm not sure about the cops though I don't want to put his mom through that & I'm not sure what the cops can do since I've personally never seen him just my neighbor ... I wish this would just be an easy break up like my past one's he' making it so difficult I wish i knew what on earth he was thinking or if I could at least punch him in the face lol
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