Norma Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Well the first two times my boyfriend and I had sex we were at hotels, and the next two times we were at his house. I felt a lil worried cause his family was home. Well anyways, I guess my question is, should we not at his house anymore, is it like rude towards the family and all? They don't know that we are, since we are upstairs but still?? Well he feels more comfortable, and I too, when we are together unplanned, hotels are so planned, we like it to come natural you know. He doesn't mind us having sex at his home, it bothered me at first, but not anymore....should I be worried?? If his family finds out he says they wouldn't care they feel we are adults now, both 18 and if we want sex life they aren't against it. It's just should we or shouldn't we in his home?? and if not in his home, then I guess what we don't have sex? Hotels are just soo not cool hehe! Gosh how I wish we didn't live at home and actually had apartments or something lol! ~~Norma
honey2005 Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 I would respect my boyfriend's parents too much to have sex in their home, especially when they are home. But if you wanna do it, go ahead, but just make sure they don't catch you, that would be VERY embarassing for both you and your boyfriend and his parents. On the other hand, if he has younger siblings, I recommend you don't. What if they walked in on you?
cinnamonstix49 Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 Originally posted by Norma then I guess what we don't have sex? Guess not
Norma Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 well ya he has older sister and according to him she wouldnt be upset, nor his parents, but to me I thought it would be disrespectful you know. I dunno, he says he doesn't mind, and we are pretty quiet, and his parents never come and check on us, they will yell from the bottom of the stairs if they want something. hmm I know logically I shouldn't right...grrr the situation just sucks, I should be smarter and say no to it, I originally said no, but then I changed my mind, so grr me -Norma
Samson Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Well anyways, I guess my question is, should we not at his house anymore, is it like rude towards the family and all? They don't know that we are, since we are upstairs but still?? Norma, you are clearly a deep, deep thinker. Perhaps you could just as easily answer these questions: 1. If a tree falls in the woods, and no one hears it, did it make a sound? 2. What is the sound of one hand clapping?
UCFKevin Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 I've never been okay with the idea of having sex when the parents are nearby. It's very disrespectful to me.
UCFKevin Posted August 16, 2004 Posted August 16, 2004 Come, join me in my dimentia! They all float down here!
pitprincess Posted August 17, 2004 Posted August 17, 2004 Many folks do that around here.. lol My have NEVER had sex in my parents home. Just makes me wander if they listend to see if we did though...
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