charlietheginger Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 So i made a list of both sides of the coin To weight out the plus and negatives of being single vs a relationship Relationship cons = Arguments Bickering Nagging Pms"ing Bossy Controlling Demanding Needed relationship pros = Sex (when you get in) Not being lonley Versus being single pros Freedom Non arguing No bickering No pms"ing No one controling No demanding Can do what you want when you want. Now that i weighed out the pros vs cons Its very eazy to see why men (and women ) often choose to be single with casual sex And fwb"s or even exusive sex buddies...
iris219 Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 You listed cons of a bad relationship. I agree being single is better than being in a bad relationship. 8
TheZebra Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 You listed cons of a bad relationship. I agree being single is better than being in a bad relationship. And there's a huge lack of pros from being a good, healthy relationship. I didn't stay with my exes because of sex or lack of loneliness; there were plenty of other reasons. 1
mammasita Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 This is irrelevant. Your personal pros and cons will change based on what YOU are looking for.
todreaminblue Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 pros of a good realtionship someone who gets you someone who would choose you over others to hang with someone who knows when you have a bad day just hwo to make it better in 54321..... someone who can make you laugh when you really just want to curl up in a corner someone who wants to listen to dreams and aspirations and their eyes light up too just to share them with you someone who would never let someone hit you twice someone you can tell exactly how you feel even if it istn the same as their feelings you are never worried about telling the truth... someone you can argue with without fear of reprisal for stating how o rwhat you believe soemone who even if you are wrong woudlnt say it until you were in private someone who has your back and you have theirs someone who thinks casual sex truly is a waste of time because no one and i mean no one knows your body like they do vice versa...... someone who chooses you and you choose them .......over all others.....that even through the fights the arguments the tears the smiles and the good times you just know life without them would truly suck.....they make a huge difference in your life too big to let go of and the same for them to you someone who you can be with when all goes to crap and no matter what, that is that slice of happiness you need ,that and god to get you through the rough times..... all this is embedded in a good relationship not all sunshine and mangoes.......but passion for someone enough to want to make a relationship a true pleasure........cant get any of that with casual sex.....or a fwb.....thats a band aid until you get a real relationship....and i reckon......real sex that is known as making love to someone only comes in a real relationship.....deb
GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 This is irrelevant. Your personal pros and cons will change based on what YOU are looking for. I agree with you! It's based on what your looking for and what your personality is like. I personally don't sleep around I'm old school I like to feel comfortable & love the person that I'm with whether it come with bickering the point of the relationship i to go through the phases because you love someone & you want to be there. 1
KungFuJoe Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 So i made a list of both sides of the coin To weight out the plus and negatives of being single vs a relationship Relationship cons = Arguments Bickering Nagging Pms"ing Bossy Controlling Demanding Needed relationship pros = Sex (when you get in) Not being lonley Versus being single pros Freedom Non arguing No bickering No pms"ing No one controling No demanding Can do what you want when you want. Now that i weighed out the pros vs cons Its very eazy to see why men (and women ) often choose to be single with casual sex And fwb"s or even exusive sex buddies... You really put a lot of thought into this. Almost ten minutes worth. 1
Casablanca Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 You listed cons of a bad relationship. I agree being single is better than being in a bad relationship. What I came here to say
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