napy666 Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Last year August of 2011, me and my old best friend got into a fight and our friendship ended. BUT she and my ex boyfriend were friends because I introduced them to one another while my ex boyfriend and I dated for the past 3 years of our lives. Then September 2011 rolled in and my ex boyfriend and I ended up 3 year relationship and after that he tormented me from viewing my online profiles, to having his friends text or call me, to he himself text me or message me online on and off very rudely. So anyway after loosing both my old best friend and ex boyfriend the 2 of them remained friends and talked to one another talking **** about me of course and just about regular stuff etc. My old best friend had then asked my ex boyfriend if he was indeed a Virgin since thats what he told me, he told my old best friend he was not a Virgin and hadn't been one since 16 years of age. So he lied to me, IF that was even true who knows. Then him and her continued being friends and just talking. So this year after a year of me trying to reconnect our friendship between me and my old best friend, she shows up at my doorstep and we hung out twice this week talking and stuff like old times. So thats when she told me that my ex boyfriend had told her he wasn't a Virgin and this is what made me think well what else was he hiding from me. Because when him and I first became a couple he did drink but immediately stopped after talking to me the first time. Then he hid that he was drinking again 2 years into our relationship and that hurt me. So anyway right now its having me think and wanting to confront and ask my ex so many questions just so I can get that closure. I want to know was he really a virgin, did he cheat on me while we dated, why did we really break up, etc etc etc. But then again I know he won't talk to me, and his NEW girlfriend is very obsessive and she always logs onto his accounts and his his cell 24/7 so there is no way to talk to him or even know really. It's just something rolling in the back of my mind and I don't know what to do. HELP.
Mel2011 Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 If I was in your situation I would leave it. If he has proven to be a liar in the past then you probably will never get the truth out of him. Keep living your life and be happy; show him exactly what he is missing out on!
Author napy666 Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 Haha I guess your right then.
LifeUnexpected27 Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 it wouldn't change anything for you, so I say leave it too!
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