nj1987 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 (edited) Theres a girl at my work shes 20 im 25 that i really like. i was chasing her, giving her attention, also texting her at night when i worked on the overnight shift. now i realized that wasnt going anywhere and it seemed like i was doing all the work. now its been 2weeks i havent texted her and at work i only talk to her about work and thats it and no personal stuff. most days now ill only say "hi" or "bye". yesterday one of my other co-worker told me that shes been asking about me 3-4 times now and that if i was mad at her or not. he told her that ive moved on. and she said "oh". i have asked her out before but she told me she doesnt have the time right now and when she does she'll let me know. it also seems like she likes to play games. Should i just keep doing what im doing by not texting her and not giving her that much attention? btw i still like her but i dont wanna chase her anymore cause im just hurting myself Edited December 15, 2012 by nj1987
LoverOfDance Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I think u should wait 4 her to initiate first. If she cares at all she will and if she doesn't, u got your answer. I'm a girl and when I like a guy, I always initiate. I never let him do all the work. Some girls are kind of weird though. They can like a guy and never ever initiate. Shyness maybe. Idk. I wld wait tho. See what she does.
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