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No contact for 2 weeks, did I make a boo boo?


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My full story islaidoutin this wonderfully helpful for so I will spare youths details?

 

2 tennage daughters, whom I love dearly and have almost daily phone contact. We are very close, fun, laughter etc. Last night my oldest comes back from university forthe holidays. Yesterday happened to be my possible ex w birthday. I of course knew this was the case, but except for a couple of very benign e mails seeing if she would attend counseling appointment with me that has been my only contact.

So my daughters out to a movie with their mother on her b day, text me and say get mm sme flowers, a card and leave them on th dent porch? OK---think about all the pain I've felt I last 2 weeks, staying alone, at hotel, not going on our family Hawaii trip, a having to get pissy, mean e mails in response to my mild counseling session request. So what did I do?. I got the most caveman birthday car and a ballon and put them on the porch so she would get them on way home. I felt like I Linda blew the NC, but, my girls were involve and said mom was saying hw she got nothing from me. wWell she sat not deserve sh.. From me. I have been getting stronge every day(like Chicago song).

My ultimate goal is to work this out,with cnselors )(who will probably tell she's got mania)

Was I wrong to beak the valuable NC clause ?

 

Thanks to all of you.

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Nc has let me get me back. There is no yelling here. I have, until end of year, a great home at Marriott. Nc lets me rediscover myself. Im not an appedige to my w, sorry about late nightbramblingn

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