BetrayedH Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 I answered the Qs in order too I thought the cake and rug bit woulda done it He, he. Guess I'm the slow one tonight. Liked both the cake and rug jokes, though. Like your sense of humor. 2
2sunny Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 Is anyone else here wondering what happened with the OP's meeting tonight - to end it? I just got off work and thought I'd see an update...
2sunny Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 He started a new thread. As predicted, they had THE most amazing sex of their lives. She took him to place he's never been before. She even made a dramatic exit. Then he came home and got slapped with a reality stick and now he's very angry - he has a wife who asks him to do stuff and she doesn't run up to him and rip off his clothes when he walks in the door. OW literally ripped off his clothes when they saw each other tonight. OP - did you book the hotel prior to your meeting? I just saw it and posted there. The main thing I noticed is that he never told his OW it was over. And heaven forbid if a wife asks a husband to participate in the household - now all of a sudden she's a @itch for that! His wife is probably decorating for Christmas and wanted his help... Little does she know that her cheating husband was having the screw of his lifetime while "pretending" to end things. He needs to just man up and get honest with his wife! His anger is showing - now he's going to blame his W for not being able to be with his passionate bunny. 1
nofool4u Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 (edited) Betrayed spouses don't want to contemplate that in some way they may have been sexually or emotionally inadequate to fulfill the cheating spouse's needs in those areas. I think you'll find most BS's will acknowledge their part in problems in the marriage. What we won't accept is blame or being gaslighted for the cheater's decision to cheat. Which is not to say it's the BS's "fault" that the WS cheated. A great example is this oft-repeated notion, primarily by women, that sex isn't a "need" and it's not "necessary." (Apparently it's just a favor you get if you're a good boy?) Yet when their spouse has sex with someone else more willing to be sexually generous, they claim to have been blind-sided. Ahem: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/339889-e-mail-my-wife Reading your letter to your wife, it becomes clear that you expect things. Hell, look at your first 2 sentences alone demanding a blow job. Point is, I don't think you need to be the one preaching what you are preaching. Edited December 17, 2012 by nofool4u 1
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