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*JUST A POLL QUESTION*

 

I'm going though my ex breaking up with me currently (GIGS) and it's been hard on me because I love her so much and she obviously broke up with me...but this got me thinking. I DONT WANT THIS IF THIS WOULD BE THE REASON SHE WOULD CONTACT ME, but do you think the dumper would be reconsidering/having a hard time/etc around the holidays like the dumpee would be if they were in a long relationship? Yes, they made that choice for whatever the reason, but you think with all those happy memories they shared with the dumpee during times like Christmas might hurt them/make them think a little more about it?

 

For instance, I broke up with the girl before my ex after three years together....but I did think about my ex on that day. Some of the pain came back, and I was surprised that I missed her to an extent. We argured ALL the time and it went on for a year longer than it should, so I was not upset to break up with her, but even after that, I was down a little bit. What do you think?

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*JUST A POLL QUESTION*

 

I'm going though my ex breaking up with me currently (GIGS) and it's been hard on me because I love her so much and she obviously broke up with me...but this got me thinking. I DONT WANT THIS IF THIS WOULD BE THE REASON SHE WOULD CONTACT ME, but do you think the dumper would be reconsidering/having a hard time/etc around the holidays like the dumpee would be if they were in a long relationship? Yes, they made that choice for whatever the reason, but you think with all those happy memories they shared with the dumpee during times like Christmas might hurt them/make them think a little more about it?

 

For instance, I broke up with the girl before my ex after three years together....but I did think about my ex on that day. Some of the pain came back, and I was surprised that I missed her to an extent. We argured ALL the time and it went on for a year longer than it should, so I was not upset to break up with her, but even after that, I was down a little bit. What do you think?

Hi

 

In bold. You thought about your ex but remember how it was? Was it a great feeling of loss and worry that you made a mistake? My guess it was just a flleting thought because you broke up with her. Spin it, maybe your ex was asking this very question somewhere else at the same time.

 

Yeah maybe she will think of you, but thats all it`ll be. a thought.

More than likely she`s out enjoying herself and having fun and not thinking of you at all.

Maybe you should do the same?

 

It`s painful what you are going through i know, but sitting around `thinking` about her will not help at all!!

Get out, get busy and she`ll soon be a memory.

 

Hugs

 

aM

  • 1 month later...
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I hope this makes sense - I was the DUMPER/DUMPEE and any special occasion since the breakup has torn my heart inside out, not looking forward to Valentines AT ALL this year, even though we didn't do anything special for it last year, outside of a text message, I'm going to miss that text message like air this year, so I guess if you've got a heart and are a genuine person, whether the dumpee or dumper, you will miss different ex's at certain times after the break up :):):)

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