surfergirl Posted August 12, 2004 Posted August 12, 2004 Gotta question for you guys out there. Dated this guy for a few months and it just didn't work out. We are still friends. Problem is his best friend and I have this unbelievable chemistry and attraction for each other. We haven't done anything about it. He keeps telling me it's too soon and to wait that the "right one" is coming. What does that mean? He makes it a point to tell me not to get involved. I'm moving on - am I wrong or should I wait?
morrigan Posted August 13, 2004 Posted August 13, 2004 From what your ex's friend has said, I wouldn't count on getting involved with him anytime soon. I don't know why he's telling you to not to date anyone else, but it's unrealistic of him to expect you to wait in the wings until he makes up his mind. Even if you two ever did start dating, you might be awkward around your former bf. You can stay friends with your ex and this other guy, but move on, there are good guys out there who won't put you on hold.
Author surfergirl Posted August 13, 2004 Author Posted August 13, 2004 Thanks Morrigan for the response. I needed an "outside" opinion. I'm moving on. Everyone that knows us says he'll come around but I'm not waiting to see. Thanks for the info.
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