shadow15 Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 So me and my ex have been broken up almost 3 months now, and she got in a relationship about a month ago. It hurt me at first, as i was still hurt from the break up, but i managed to get my head straight and finally started to focus on myself, which started to feel great; feeling more confident, more attractive, you know the whole jazz. Any who thats not what is on my mind, but yesterday, i went to a college with my friend to talk to them about classes; my luck though i see my exs car parked there. It didnt bother me, and my friend said lets park near her, and i was like ok lets do it, since we was in my car. We go into the college, being my luck on that day it was closed, so as we are walking out, my friend see's a girl walking down to the parking lot, she says is that who i think it is. I looked, but couldnt tell at a distance, so i said idk, but lets get over here so she dont see us; however as i got closer i noticed it was my ex and she was getting into her car. I brought my phone out just looking at it, and as she pulled out i looked over and she was sitting there waving at me, i put my hand up just a tad and waved a small wave then continued walking. I didnt feel anything when i seen her, but i was wasnt really trying to look at her. But any way, about an hour later, my friend says im going check her twitter, and she posted "to say im confused would be an understatement" with a unhappy face attached. Now i didnt let it get to my head, i laughed it off and thought its prolly because she was wondering why the hell was i there, which is a good reason. My ego was up, i felt great the rest of the day. Well tonight i decided to get on facebook, we are not friends anymore cause i deleted her, but i wanted to get some pictures of us off of her page to put up with all of our stuff that i put away and i noticed she was not longer in a relationship. I dont know whats going on, nor do i care, but i just think its a little odd that we see each other for the first time since the break up and then a day later she gets out of a relationship. I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks about this. Also as me and my friend was talking yesterday she was like you know she downgraded right. I thought my friend was just being a good friend when she said that, but she told me about how her new bf was completely opposite of me; he smoked, drinks, parties, smokes weed, and had an std once. Not going lie, it made me feel awesome, but wtf was my ex thinking, i felt a little insulted lol.
road Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 So me and my ex have been broken up almost 3 months now, and she got in a relationship about a month ago. It hurt me at first, as i was still hurt from the break up, but i managed to get my head straight and finally started to focus on myself, which started to feel great; feeling more confident, more attractive, you know the whole jazz. Any who thats not what is on my mind, but yesterday, i went to a college with my friend to talk to them about classes; my luck though i see my exs car parked there. It didnt bother me, and my friend said lets park near her, and i was like ok lets do it, since we was in my car. We go into the college, being my luck on that day it was closed, so as we are walking out, my friend see's a girl walking down to the parking lot, she says is that who i think it is. I looked, but couldnt tell at a distance, so i said idk, but lets get over here so she dont see us; however as i got closer i noticed it was my ex and she was getting into her car. I brought my phone out just looking at it, and as she pulled out i looked over and she was sitting there waving at me, i put my hand up just a tad and waved a small wave then continued walking. I didnt feel anything when i seen her, but i was wasnt really trying to look at her. But any way, about an hour later, my friend says im going check her twitter, and she posted "to say im confused would be an understatement" with a unhappy face attached. Now i didnt let it get to my head, i laughed it off and thought its prolly because she was wondering why the hell was i there, which is a good reason. My ego was up, i felt great the rest of the day. Well tonight i decided to get on facebook, we are not friends anymore cause i deleted her, but i wanted to get some pictures of us off of her page to put up with all of our stuff that i put away and i noticed she was not longer in a relationship. I dont know whats going on, nor do i care, but i just think its a little odd that we see each other for the first time since the break up and then a day later she gets out of a relationship. I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks about this. Also as me and my friend was talking yesterday she was like you know she downgraded right. I thought my friend was just being a good friend when she said that, but she told me about how her new bf was completely opposite of me; he smoked, drinks, parties, smokes weed, and had an std once. Not going lie, it made me feel awesome, but wtf was my ex thinking, i felt a little insulted lol. And your point is? What is it that you want? So you ran into your ex. Happens all the time.
Appleness Posted December 23, 2012 Posted December 23, 2012 She sounds young and most likely wanted to date a "bad boy". Have you check out some of the GIGS posts here? Don't mistaken that sad faces twitters for her having second thoughts about you. She's just confused meaning she has no idea what she wants. Keep doing what you've been doing to move on. Do not be there for her, do not check her status.. heck, don't even wave next time. What if the reason she's confused is "why would he wave to me and be all friendly after I've treated him like poop?" Worse, what if you try to get back together with her now that she's single and she runs straight to the other guy? Stay away. This mess isn't over just yet. Wait and see.
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