gettingoveru Posted August 12, 2004 Posted August 12, 2004 I really need some advice. My girlfriend and I have been over for 9 months now. She has moved on and is in love with someone else. I am still in love with her and trying to get over her. I am dating a wonderful woman and I feel love for her but I am not in love. I have dated a few people but no matter what, I can't get my ex out of my head or my heart. She wants to return every picture of me and the ones of us together and she wants me to return pictures of her. It hurts so bad and the pics are all I have left of us. Am I wrong to want to keep them or should I send them back to her? We had a long distance relationship for 2 years and she is the only woman I have ever loved and I am 43, is there any hope? Thanks
doubledown Posted August 12, 2004 Posted August 12, 2004 First of all you refer to her as your GF, she is your EX of 9 months. I take it that she dumped you, and probably already had a new guy in line as soon as you were gone. It doesn't sound good. The fact that she wants the pictures of her back, and doesn't want any pictures of you or both of you. 9 months is a long time, I myself am going on 8 months, with no contact at all. Unlike you I have been single all of that time as well, and like your situation my EX is in love with someone new. If I were you, I'd focus on what you have, and not on what you don't have. Make your new GF happy, and be happy that you're with her, even if she's not like your EX, I'm sure she's better in some ways. Good luck.
manofmystrey Posted August 12, 2004 Posted August 12, 2004 Hey buddy its been 7 months for me and no contact and yes she is in love with someone else in fact she was with him when she left me. Does not matter we have not even talked. But I hate to tell u this what u are doing is wrong. U cant lead ur present girl on and act like u love her but u dont. U will break her heart. If she does not want ur pics that means she does not want anything to do with u in which case as hard as it may sound u need to let go and forget her. Dont worry about what u lost think about what u have gained. Somone that cares for u and wants to be with u. As for the pics what she gave u is urs to do with as u please if u decide u want to give them back do so.
a2nxtc28 Posted August 14, 2004 Posted August 14, 2004 Return it! You're going to do yourself a favor.Just forget about her it's been too long dude!It's all in your head..you still have a lot of love to give.It looks like your ex had moved and so you have too.I know it's hard but you have to go on with your life and dont look back..that's why you have to return those damn pictures.Stop making yourself miserable..focus on somebody else.There's a lot of women out there.
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