Krushedloser265 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 I met this girl a few months ago, we hit it off great talking everyday until one in the morning. She greeted me every morning with a Good Morning, and we would talk all day. This pattern went on until a few weeks ago when she stopped talking to me as much. Eventually her lack of communicationwith me turned into a full out ignoring me. She said she was stressed and a lot was going on in her life which I understood and I did give her space. I was in no way intrusive or harassing in anyway, I never would push her or pressure her into speaking with me. Today I just simply sent her a message asking if she wanted to meet over coffee or dinner on Sunday night (The last time she sent me a message was a week ago, I don't think I did anything wrong). She ended up not returning that message and blocking me on Facebook officially shutting off all contact with me. Earlier I did tell this girl I loved her and opened up to her, and she was FINE will this. She never showed any signs she was freaked out, she even told me we had a possiblity of starting something and I was a great guy before she blocked me. I don't know what the hell happened or what's going through her mind. I think this was a very rude and spineless way of telling me she lost interest, I trusted this girl I just feel like a betrayed and used piece of horse sh**. Anyone have any ideas on what the hell happened?People have always treated me like this, left me with no answers and in such a random fashion. I'm not a creep, nor am I bad person so I'm so hurt right now.
yongyong Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 Earlier I did tell this girl I loved her and opened up to her, and she was FINE will this. She never showed any signs she was freaked out, she even told me we had a possiblity of starting something and I was a great guy before she blocked me. That explains everything. She was not FINE with that. Did you even bang her? I am sure you told her you love her to get her closer to you. It doesn't work that way. You can only say that after banging her multiple times and she is worried about you ditching her after having sex with her.
AsonUnique Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I met this girl a few months ago...Earlier I did tell this girl I loved her I think you freaked her out. While I believe people can fall in love that fast, that obviously wasn't a mutual thing here. Sorry dude. I'm not even sure if sending just one text that says "sorry for freaking you out, please relax b/c I won't bother you" would help...but you have to give her space.
MrCastle Posted December 15, 2012 Posted December 15, 2012 I don't think you freaked her out. I think there is another man involved and she didn't know how to tell you. In any event, you just have to move on. Even if it was something you did--the mature thing would have been for her to tell you what it is you did wrong. Forget her. Obviously not a woman worth your time. 2
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