asian men are they really like me

[joel]

i was on another forum and this chinese gal was speaking and mentioned how asian men were quiet, shy, passive and weren;t willing to approiach women, as that is why u see so many white men and Af and hardly any asian men with whtie women or even asian women at all. i find it something of a truth. i mean i am like that.

are u asian guys like that too-shy, quite, passive, not willing to approach a women-or ask her out or even speak to a girl ur attracted to.

the thing is i seen some whtie guys and black guys go up to women all kinds of women like they don't even care of the out come.

what can we asian men do to change our approach. i really hate and depresses me seeing wm/af being together being a single AM and even more when the AF is hot-its a lose on our side.

[YellowLioness]

really hate and depresses me seeing wm/af being together being a single AM and even more when the AF is hot-its a lose on our side.

 

I don't really like how you said that, Joel.

 

I think that love trancends race, most of the time. I think that your statement is a mite sexist, and that attitude in itself may be why you have problems getting girls.

 

Back in the day, females were regarded as property and an especially beautiful status symbol.

 

However, most women I know today would resent being thought of as a status symbol.

 

Also, races are frequently mixed in America. Why do you have a problem with it? In your earlier posts you seemed to be interested in white females.

Why are you now regarding an asian female dating a white male as a loss "on your side?"

[honey2005]

I don't understand why you connect certain attitudes and personalities with different races. Just because a group of men are Asian doesn't mean they are all going to be "quiet, shy and passive", and for the group of white and black men, not all of them are going to be as out going as to approach a woman and not care of the outcome. What I'm saying is you can't stereotype a group of people, everyone is different, even if they are the same race.

[dyermaker]

Of the twenty or thirty asian peers I know, most are fairly quiet and passive, yes.

[havNfun]

could it be because Asian men are under endowed?

[blue17]

are you born in canada or born in asia? If you are born in Canada, your race really shouldnt make a difference at all. Out of my friends, a few of them are azn and it makes no difference. They are born in Canada, so they have the same cultural influence and they act just like any other 'white' person would. My best friend is azn born in canada, and he has a white girlfriend....stereotypes don't rule the world.