mad70 Posted December 14, 2012 Posted December 14, 2012 So it boils down to how, do I get in the dating scene. Ive moved alot and I used to be very shy in high school and college. Joined the military changed my life. I workout all the time and have more confidence in myself. Its kind of hard for me to keep conversations with a female only the get to know part and crap. Ive had many chances in civilian life but messed them all up. From random girls hitting on me and I have no clue what the hell is going on to 2 best friends trying to get at me only for them to ruin their friendship. Im pretty terrible with women I would say that. Anyone know what I can do to better my chances with women. I personally think the reason is im short, real short 5'3 status. Which makes it harder to compete with taller guys. Ive been told im a nice guy . I know how to flirt, that doesnt work out good when their taken. Another reason why I believe is because im just an average looking guy. Im not extremely good looking but im not ugly. I try all the time to get a girlfriend but everything fks up. I drive a nice car, dress pretty good, cologne and all, im more of a deep person relaxed, into the whole universe thing, soul mates and all that good stuff. What makes this urge even worse is cause I started working out about 6 times a week so my testosterone is sky rocketing and I cant stand being single any more -This girl in my tech school wanted to date me and multiple other guys at the same time. I said hell no to that but every one of my guy friends said I should of had some "fun" but im not all into that dating multiple people crap. -Im talking to this girl for about a month or so. She texts me like 24/7 for the past month like good morning texts and hows her day and stuff like that. Sends me pics of her day and I do the same. I met her when i first got stationed here. Saw her often and after 4 or so months just causal converstaion we started talking and now its 24/7. Anyway we hardly hang out but today we met up at the gym after I worked out so i decided to stay longer to see how everything goes. It went good just ran together and chatted. Then I noticed she kept looking around im like **** must be boring her or something but she said she was waiting for her friend who goes to the gym together all the time. Its a girl. but I just felt she wasnt all that into me so I said well I have to head to work ill ttyl. I have no idea what her deal is. I thought we clicked shared like goals in life and what we like to do and it turns out she does the same things I do. and exact same goals in life which was weird. She says she has a big heart but is cold hearted. This girl gets hit on alot I noticed. Everyguy looking at her. She dresses cute but ive noticed everything is way too revealing. Looked like she wore a bra and a stomach skirt? w.e the hell to a concert but she said the "bra" was a top. Idk what to do with this girl. Shes 22. Any one have some advice about her? Reason why im posting here is cause I need some help like really? 21 never had a gf no kiss, nothing. No experience and I just need help before it gets carried away.
GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 then hook up lol i know that's bad to say a drunken mistake is nothing to proud of but sometimes chicks can feel that tension in a guy. It's weird it makes a chick nervous and the guy is rarely aware of it because he's so wrapped up in himself. Is she aware that your not experienced?
Author mad70 Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 hook up? bleh. i think shes just playing me. yeah i told her i never had a gf. i forgot what she said about it but she was surprised.
GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 16, 2012 Posted December 16, 2012 ihook up? bleh. i think shes just playing me. yeah i told her i never had a gf. i forgot what she said about it but she was surprised. okay so she was surprised because your probably a good looking guy its a bit shocking when a decent guy has never had a gf. & i meant hook up with someone else lol I would probably never do it but sometimes it helps relieve a guy you know lol like your friends said your young have fun just be safe haha
Author mad70 Posted December 16, 2012 Author Posted December 16, 2012 i okay so she was surprised because your probably a good looking guy its a bit shocking when a decent guy has never had a gf. & i meant hook up with someone else lol I would probably never do it but sometimes it helps relieve a guy you know lol like your friends said your young have fun just be safe haha kinda hard to find women here. in the military nothing but either players or taken. married females cheat on their husbands here. its terrible.
GlendiexElsewhere Posted December 17, 2012 Posted December 17, 2012 kinda hard to find women here. in the military nothing but either players or taken. married females cheat on their husbands here. its terrible. What about outside the base? are you not allowed to leave? That's a pretty hard situation ... It might be a bit tough that way to find a connection with someone
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