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Getting separated, 49- it's been over 20 years since dating


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I mea:confused:n last time I was dating was the 80's, so I'm a bit concerned how to move forward. I'm in a good place, feeling good about the freedom, feel good about what I have to offer in appearance, education, trying to be interesting and interested. Main question, do I go to bars with friends? Or I'm hoping maybe when "our" group of friends knows whats gone down, they will nice gals to set me up with.

Also after being married for years my wardrobe was meh so now I'm going to look spiffy as I can.

 

Any pointers on dating at middle age?

 

Thanks for input

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Growing your circle of friends is the best way to find a new long term partner. Being active, going out lots and meeting new people - but preferably not in the bar scene as such. Partly because alcohol tends to give you bad advice and clouds your judgement. If you just want to get laid, that's different.

 

Do you have lots of hobbies and interests? Do you have a good, reliable circle of friends? If not, these are what you need to work on to start with.

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